I love a gal...she doesn't know me very well..I just proposed her..now she started ignoring me...but I love her..how can I re-correct my mistake...I really love her.
2007-01-19 23:46:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU IGNORE HER TOO.
2007-01-20 04:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all change your mindset. That was not a mistake. Proposing a girl is not a mistake at all. The only mistake was you probably proposed her at the wrong time. Now, maybe she feels a bit insecure when you are around. Maybe she doesn't want to get into this affair stuff.
All you need to do is be friends with her. Go to her, have a chat. Tell her that you won't bug her with such offers but just wanna be friends. This will give her some relief. She may consider this approach.
If you really love someone, express it in deeds before expressing it in words. And to express it in deeds even you need some space, some time.
2007-01-20 02:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey first of all u haven't done any mistake. Falling in love is not any mistake. There is no control over heart. Now other thing u say that u love her but she started ignoring u. U love her so u want that u should be together nd u proposed her nd she may loved u or may not but it doesn't mean that u should stop loving her. Dont force ur heart to stop loving her. In love distances doesn't matter.
Help her if she ever need u nd if she ignores u then dont take it bad.
May u get her.
2007-01-20 16:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing is to analyze the situation. then ask her about what had happened after the proposal, like, what she thought about it, why is she ignoring you and stuff. if her answer is positive, well, congrats! if her answer is negative to what youve expected, like if she said she doesnt want you/it, then the most proper thing to do is move on. i know thats a pretty old advice, but it works all the time. learn how to move on. here's a piece of thing i realized whenever im rejected: "there are plenty of other fish in the sea. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS FISH."
2007-01-20 00:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by I'm his Winona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all , its not your mistake at all !
because sometimes we become too late due to too much pateince and doubts , so now at least you are clear about her feelings for you .
now you try to get the idea whether you can convince her in short time or not . if yes , then do it confidently . if no then , start cotrolling your feelings , otherwise , now or later , it will be more panic for you to control the situation . but dont think more than enough positive about her.
2007-01-19 23:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by mannu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think give her a bouquet of red roses and say that u are sorry for what u did and say that u can atleast be just good friends and who knows down the track u might just get lucky with ur good conduct and behaviour.All the best
2007-01-20 04:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by MD. F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either have an objective (not emotional) discussion with her to see how she really feels about you. It may be too much to soon and you need to take it slower, or she may not be interested in which case you should move on and not waste time. The second option is to just move on.
2007-01-19 23:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a date or two would help make things a little better, but i would try and avoid her for (at least) a few days, and then explain that i was a little too excited, and that I would love to get to know her a little better - before buying a house and having kids.
2007-01-19 23:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by oliver d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too few mistakes in life could be recorved after doing them.
"she doesn't know me very well" means do you know her very well??
Without atleast knowing each other how can it be love?it is just infactuation. Give it time.It will disappear.
Forget her. dont be too fast to fall in love.Let it happen naturally.
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2007-01-20 00:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Can I help you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. By being around a lot and contacting her at this point will only make her push away from you further.
Good luck.
2007-01-19 23:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by fredonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one way..it becomes reality only if that girl also know u ..consider u as a father of her child it is big responsibility so deserve & then desire ..concentrate on your career.Find out how she can know you...then propose otherwise forget that girl..
2007-01-20 00:27:24 · answer #11 · answered by Mahesh S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋