O.K. I'm in nursing school work full time and it seems like when ever sex comes into play I try and find some way to avoid it! Then again it seems like when I'mnot stressed out from work or school I love hooking up with my man some times 4-5 a day!! Should I go to the Dr. or what? After all we spice things up all the time and I love him its not like I'm getting tired of him because I have no disire to cheat on him..... And no its not a new realationship we have been together for 4 years now!! So I'm not some random whore so don't tell me I should ubstain from it all together!
2007-01-19 22:57:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I should tell everyone this no he is not complaining in anyway about us not having as much sex was we used to and well I like it alot so I'm just confused as to why I'm not in the mood all the time like I used to be.
2007-01-19 23:10:40 · update #1
You're in nursing school AND working...? That's not only a busy schedule, it's stressful, as well!
I think you have answered your own question: when you are relaxed, and not under pressure, things are fine.
I don't think you need any medication; you need a vacation!
My advice: Relax, and remember that your schooling will someday be completed, and your schedule will lighten. See if your sweetie is willing to massage your back...and *nothing else*...once or twice a week; this has been known to work small miracles!
2007-01-19 23:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a full-time student with a job too, and I know first-hand how school will suck the very life out of you sometimes! When you barely have enough time to study for your test tomorrow, and you're hungry because you haven't eaten right lately, and you need to go pick up the mail for the first time in 3 days, and you are trying desperately not to let the dishes pile up in the sink... how much *time* is left over for thinking about sex, anyway (or hobbies, or television, etc)? Zero, zilch, nada.
However, if sex is important to you, then you should make time in your schedule for it. If you are having trouble staying interested, you might see a counselor who can give you some stress-reduction tips. Sometimes the stress itself isn't keeping you from being interested... sometimes it is the "not dealing well with stress" part that seems to act as a poison on your entire sense of well-being. So I would say, go to a counselor, and learn some tried and true ways of relieving stress.
I hope this will help you to some degree. Keep praying too. The very God who gave you the sex drive in the first place, will help to restore it to you in just the right time. And will help you with stress-relief as well, I believe.
2007-01-19 23:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by prodaugh-internet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not some random whore either but i got real tired of the baggage and control issues and put it in mothballs. i live by my own standards and not someone elses...if sex is not a priority then so xxxx what. live life your way by what you feel is an issue...if someone gets in the way..too bad for them.
2007-01-19 23:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're normal!...stress and over work drains people. Seems like when you at peace you like sex....bet you're a morning lover
2007-01-19 23:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Robert P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just 'life'. If he isn't complaining, don't worry about it. When you get out of school, things will get more active.
2007-01-19 23:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women I know need something like Viagra.
2007-01-19 23:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Colossus 9000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is not all sex...he should be happy that you are there
2007-01-19 23:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you can't "provide" for your man, you should consider bring home a girlfriend.
2007-01-19 23:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋