i cant take it anymore i feel so depressed i feel like doing somethink stupid like cutting?

Question

i cant take anymore i feel like crap cause i cant see my bf and that he told me hes going away to china in the summer well i feel so depressed i feel like doing soemthink stupid.all my friends are busy and i feel so depressed cause theres nothink todo.i cant take this stress anymore,plus college is annoying me cause ic ant do maths.i dunno what todo

hes going to china to see family cause he doesnt see them alot only once a year,i feel just so depressed cause i dont egt to talk to him alot cause o the time diffrance and it gets to much for me.my tutor told me to let him go to see hes family but he goes ill just break down.

Answer 1

You need to talk to someone if you are feeling this low - you can always phone the samaritans on 08457909090. It would be a good idea to go to your doctor and talk to him about how you are feeling.
There are a couple of things that are bothering you, so it would be worth looking at ways to improve them. You say you are struggling with your college course, if you are finding it difficult you need to speak up and tell your tutor. Extra maths lessons may help. Try not to loose heart - there are things that we all find difficult, and it means we have to put in extra effort.
You mention you can't see your boyfriend - that is very hard, and you must miss him. Are you worried about him going to China? Have you asked yourself why you are feeling this way? Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great. If you are meant to be together, you will get through this seperation.
Please talk to someone about how you are feeling.

Answer 2

Your BF is only going away to China for the summer to see his family. Things r not as bad as u imagine. If u want him to miss u and come back to u then u must stay COOL. Being clingy and desperate is only going to make u appear less attractive to him.

No-one is attracted to someone who doesn't have a life of their own. Take up a hobby, find something that u feel passionate about (except BF of course :-) something u have always wanted to learn. Basically, keep yourself so busy that ur BF thinks it's his loss when he leaves and might even beg u to go with him.

i used to think that i couldn't do maths either (kept failing) until i had this wonderful maths teacher who inspired me so much that i became top of the class within 6 months! Now i know Maths is an extremely interesting subject. Contact me if u need any help on this. u can even post a maths question at Yahoo Answers, people will help u within a minute.

Most people have to go through some heartaches when they r teenagers. it might seem like the end of the world right now, u will feel better in the forseeable future. Some day u look back and wonder what all the fuss was about. Self-harming is a bad idea u'll regret. Trying to manipulate someone to get what u want can backfire.

"Temporary absence makes the heart grow fonder"
u can chat to him via MSN or Skype.

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it might cheer u up.
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Answer 3

Call somene. There should be like a concern hotline or something. Your college may offer free counseling and there are cutter support groups all over.

I was a cutter so I understand, but you are strong enough to pull through this. Keep your hands busy doing something else, if you CAN sleep, then go lay down and get some sleep, a nap, something, but you have GOT to talk to somene. There is no need to worry yet about what MIGHT happen over summer. Right now, just get through today. Then tomorrow just get through tomorrow.

Good Luck to you. Now get off of the computer and go make that phone call.

Answer 4

You need to get help and support asap. Your best getting an appointment with your doctor and talking to him or her about your feeling and they can advise you on medications and/or counselling that may be of help to you. There are several sites that can help when your feeling low and depressed, if you do a search for 'online depression help' then you will see alot of organisations, one that I know of is the samaritians. I know your obviously not feeling yourself just now but try to be positive, excercise and healthy eating are good for boosting your mood also there are alot of herbal remedies for depression and anxiety that maybe better to try first before perscription medications. Chemists such as boots sell st johns wort which is hightly recommended. As for college if your struggling with course work like maths then go and have a chat with your tutor and see if they can offer you extra help. Good luck

Answer 5

You need to relax and concentrate on one thing at a time you`re overloading your brain .. Sort your problems one at a time . If your b/f is going to China then there is obviously nothing you can do there but try and let him go and find someone else (eventually) . Whats most iomportant here at the moment is your education . In my opinion this should be your 1st priority . Go along and speak to someone at college about how you`re feeling and let them know where you are experiencing difficulties , they are there to help but you have to ask ..

Good Luck .

Answer 6

Many people say go the doctors but not all can obviously afford to do that. You have to remember that you came this far, so why let it beat you this time either? Don't be against it, because being against, whatever that might be, is being still negative. Focus on being FOR things you like and enjoy. When it comes, let it come, let it feel in there and then release it, don't hold it inside and keep it by thinking and exploring it emotionally. Medicin can help you, but if practice of this kind saves you. we all have our downfalls and disasters in life. Think of it this way that the next person to you might as well have these feelings but they are unseen, if they can, then you can. people with depression will always have this little dark cloud within them, so this why you gotta accept this as a part of you but not as total being of you, as you are much more than this, and if you give yourself the chance to see that there's more of good in you than bad then you will learn to focus and walk on the bright side of life. and people with depression aren't that bad, because those are who appericate the little things in life and enjoy life more truly than people who just rush by and don't even look forward. Learn to feel good inside, practice the ideas of that you are in control of you thoughts and emotions will follow with. most of all, don't be afarid of it and don't make enemies with it. acknowledge it as one seperate little force. expand your mind and power and you will learn to feel better. be aware!

Answer 7

find ways to cope w/ stress. eat a lollipop when u think of cutting. fold a crane everytime u want to cut. take a walk, visit a museum. build or use your support system. talk it out. if you hold it in it becomes POISON. if u focus more on past then you'll never progress. stay in the present and focus on your future.
for example: at age 10 u can do more things than you did at age 5 right?
stay in the present and set goals. visit a homeless shelter or hospital and use it for inspiration. go to the gym to alleviate built-up energy and stress. walk. join an outdoor league or club. talk.
get a tutor. eat well, sleep well. avoid smoking, alcohol, fatty greasy foods. diet and exercise. go to a salon. do something nice for yourself. TALK it out and take out the poison!!!!!

Answer 8

cutting isnt the answer, im 34 now and did it for years and now i am older its the most embarrasing thing cause i am covered in scares. i cant go on the beach in a bikini, if i go swimming people stare and people think you have mental issues even when you havent so they looki at you like your unstable and cant be trusted to keep your cool.

How long is your boyfriend going to be away. Try and look at it as time to be youorself and do things that cvan develop you or find seomthing you enjoy and focus your attentions on this. be destructive in another way, not on your body because beleive me, them scares never go away and will haunt you for the rest of your like.

good luck

Answer 9

sound like you have a chemical imbalane in your brain you need to get this checked out you are hyper focusing on your bf lifee and not yours easily doneand im nor berating you i can be just the same and im a lot older but sweetie you need to go see your gp and expalin all of this and take some medicaion just for a while see if it helps you love ?have you been tested for add adhd or dyslexia ?there wil be a simlpe little answer for all of this but I feel your condition has been overlooked my love I got diagnosed for add at 35 after my son had it I cant focus I cant concentrate i get tired and depressed please find help my sweet its all out there for you and if you leave it untreated it will go worse Bless You xx lots of love and hugs feel free to e mail me

Answer 10

well please do not go into cutting , that is not the answer. I should know i did it myself. if you are feeling that depressed then go an make an call, since it is the weekend , call the local crisis line, or go to an er, or even call the police if you need to, but please get some help for your depression before it gets any worse and get it tonight, if you need it. Please do not wait, remember there are people that do care, and want to see you stay safe, and i am one of them. So please get the help that you need then come this monday make a call an make an appointment to get some help, so you can feel better, and work through your problems, and learn healthy ways to cope with your problems.