There’s a guy in my history class who I really like but am getting nowhere. We’re both 16. I think he’s very shy and he won’t come near me. I’ve tried talking to him a few times, but he’s so nervous, his voice changes and he either just nods or gives a one or two word answer. I see him looking at me in class sometimes and I smile at him and he gives me a lovely smile back. When I’m talking with a group of friends, he comes over to join us and talks with the others, but he won’t look at me or speak to me. Last week at school a friend and I walked past him in the corridor. I said hi and he pretended he didn’t see us and kept walking. I’d appreciate some advice. Please don’t suggest getting him alone. I think he’d be so nervous he’d faint! And I don’t want to come on too strong.
2007-01-19 22:36:03 · 2 answers · asked by petkumu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you have any friends in common? why don't you go out with him and some friends to the movies in a friendly way? maybe just 3 or 5 of you can go together so it does not seem as a date and that way you can get a chance to talk to him. Another approach is asking him for help in your history class??? that way you get a chance to get closer to him in a "casual" way.
2007-01-19 22:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by miosotis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him more and more. so that the ice breaks. make ur intentions clear
2007-01-20 06:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋