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she keeps denying it but he is saying its true so i dont know who to believe as i love her and she seems like she is telling truth but i dont think anyone would say that they slept with your girlfriend for a joke, THATS JUST SICK!

2007-01-19 22:24:38 · 23 answers · asked by Dan W 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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who has a track record of lying? how good of a friend is this guy really....i agree with the person who says to put them in the same room and if you can't really tell then take some time for you

2007-01-19 22:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

If he really is your best mate I can,t see why he would lie to you.
It sounds like he wants to own up and not live with the guilt.
I think your girlfriend is denying it because she does not want
to hurt you. It may have been something that 'just happened'
and it might never happen again. Keep a cool head and tell
her unless you can be completely honest with each other there
will be no future for you.
Has your friend told anyone else about this to back up his
story? If it is a joke - its a bad joke and he is not the friend
that he makes out to be. Good luck - you need it.

2007-01-20 06:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0 0

If he your BEST mate? Why would he say this about her if it wasn't true? Ask him to prove it. It would be a sick joke if it is a joke but why would he lie to his best mate about this? It doesn't make sense.
After he give you the details, talk to your GF about it and see what she says.
Try to see if other people can back up either one's story.
I feel really bad for you, you're in a really tough situation. Just remember to look out for your own emotional health first above all. Good luck.

2007-01-20 06:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0 0

Well they can if they like ur GF , well u know both of them boys can lie through their teeth well u being a guy would know that better. Think over do u feel there was ever a situation where u felt ur GF was giving more attentions to ur mate or something like that? Beleive what ur heart tells u to.... do u still trust her? or do u trust ur Gf.. decision should be urs and not cause who is telling u what.

2007-01-20 06:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well first, it depends in how serious your relationship is with this girl. I mean, is she the one you would like to someday marry? If not, then just let it go. But if yes, then you need to find out the truth. I suggest you do a three way call, you call your friend then have him call your girlfriend without her knowing your on the other line. Then have him prove to you that he is not just making that up. Once on the phone have him bring up the subject and then depending on her response you will then know who was lying.
Good luck.

2007-01-20 06:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by SANDRA H 1 · 0 0

well , are you sure he is your best mate? well tell him that you love her and donot care and not to discuss about it in future ever.... i think he'll stop saying all these if he is just making a joke just to disturb you or simply lying for his own pleasure......

well tell your girlfriend that , you trust her.. but ask her wot could be the reason for such statements.. ?

just think about it.. r u gonna dump her if ur friend is right??? or r u gonna dump ur friend if ur friend is lying? donot blame ur girlfriend along if ur friend is right.. coz ur fren is also as quilty as ur gf.

try to get over the whole situation and i guess no point in discussing about it seems impossible to know the truth at this moment.. ... give some time n just try to act normal m sure eventually u'll know whom to trust ....and truth will surface....

2007-01-20 06:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by hi 3 · 0 0

How do u believe that ur best mate is telling the truth? If u want lasting relationship ignore him. Even if he slept with her before ur relationship developed it is not material.

2007-01-20 06:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the only advise i can give u is to go with ur gut... how long have u known ur bud for, and does he seem a little jealous that you are with her... and how long have u known this chick for, and of course she isnt going to outly admit it if she thinks it was a mistake and she really doesnt want to lose u... but what kind of friend would sleep with ur girl? doesnt really sound liek a good one to me... maybe u can break it off with both of them, and by their reactions u might be able to tell.. and then decide what decisions u want to make... but it really is hard to say who to believe seeing as of how i know neither one of these people

2007-01-20 06:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by red.one9luv 2 · 0 0

oh man...thats bad....but u know what,to really find out the truth,u should let ur best mate and ur gf confront each other and see who is telling the truth

2007-01-20 06:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by cherie1412 1 · 0 0

Unless you suspect that your "best friend" might have an agenda of his own which could induce him to lie to you, I'd say you found out that your "best friend" is no friend at all, and your girlfriend is a cheater and a liar. Get both of them out of your life.

2007-01-20 06:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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