If she is interested in being more than friends with you and has been hinting at it with you, flirting with you?
What if you don't feel the same way for her? Would you avoid her? Tell her you have girlfriend?
2007-01-19 22:13:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I felt interested in her ...what the hell...give it try. If not I will be honest it would put a cramp in th friendship
2007-01-19 22:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a few lines u can use because as most men will tell u there is always that woman that u really like and all she wants to do is be friends.
Tell you don't want to ruin your friendship by dating so lets remain friends.
I value our friendship too much to become involved
Well i will tell you this also that if u find a woman and u start out as friends they make the best wifes. If u hav time check out When Harry Met Sally great movie
lets stay friends but u never knew what will happen in the future
2007-01-20 06:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by KB48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth that the two of u are better of being friends. And don't just walk away after u tell her that, maybe offer her a drink and hang out together or something, be creative. If not, she might think that it's all over n there's no point in talking to u anymore - u lose ur best friend.
2007-01-20 06:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by trouble_seeker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a good mate, right? Well you need to tell her the truth or you will feel so guilty that you lied about something so serious to a best mate! Better out than in!
But don't actually tell her until she asks you out, because then she'll say that you're being accussive and you don't want that. Maybe she's just having some fun and a laugh with you, are you taking it all too seriously?
2007-01-20 06:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by ader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on her really, I have a bunch of friends that are female. Occasionally there is playful flirting so I think most guys don't think much about it as it happens when you get used to someone naturally. I would be a bit apprehensive personally but I have a few friends I just might take up on their offer if they made one as they are really great women. Its always viewed as a risk because if it doesn't work out you lose more than just a lover but also a friend.
-NmD!
2007-01-20 06:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honest is the best policy dude. If you are committed elsewhere the best thing to do is to tell her - but ever so gently. This however doesn't mean you can not keep her as a friend - but this has to be agreed by both of you. Avoiding her makes you cowardly and only alienates your friend. Treat your friends well they are like gold - hard to come by.
2007-01-20 06:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by pet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's really your friend, she'll know if you're lying about having a girlfriend. If you really have a girlfriend, just tell her that. Other than that, you should be honest with her: Just tell her that you don't have those kinds of feelings for her. Don't lie or you'll lose the friendship.
2007-01-20 06:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i would act like i dont really care about anything she says, reply with nothing of any significance and not tell her anything about my personal life.
I would only tell her i have a girlfriend if i actually had one and i wouldnt avoid her because that doesnt help
2007-01-20 06:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does all depend and if you are friends it may make things awkward for a little while if it doesnt go to plan but u have 2 decide wether it is worth taking that chance...good luck and i hope it works out for you
2007-01-20 06:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi this is Ruby. I think that this is a really sensitive question. Well it depends on if you like her or not. If you like hetr then tell her and if you don't then slowly break the bad news. But only break the bad news if she lays it on thick. You don't want to get imbarassed if your wrong. Email me back and let me know how it all went at:
ruby_rule7@yahoo.co.uk
2007-01-20 07:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a man (As you are no doubt!) and tell her that you love her to death as a friend but you have no feelings for her as a close g/f or lover, whatever! Tell her that never the less, you will always be there for her. Have a good day!
2007-01-20 06:20:46 · answer #11 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋