Okay.. I caught my guy googling college cheerleaders pics online and finding their profiles to check them out..He never tried contacting them..It was purely for looking at but he did it excessively! We live together! Plus I see him checking out girls when we're out all of the time! It totally bothers me and I confronted him about the cheerleading thing and he doesn't do that anymore..But I want to know why? Does that make him a creep?? He's never cheated on me but I would like to know now if thats a sign that he probably would..Do all guys look at other girls? Or do guys that are seriously in love keep their eyes in check? And what do you propose I should do?
2007-01-19 20:23:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should sit on the computer looking at some cute guy with muscles and abs, enlarge it and make sure you let him watch you, looking dead at the screen!
2007-01-19 20:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual and they will always check out other women from time to time. If he does it excessively in your presence, let him know that it disrespects you and how much it bothers you. If he doesn't curb it, then you start looking at other guys in HIS presence. Usually guys don't like it when the roles are reversed this way.
2007-01-19 20:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not mind if he LOOKED. i'd tell him that i am dead serious that it's okay with me (since i do understand the male sexuality, which is really a valuable part of being a man) that he LOOKS, but to NOT TOUCH. and i'd damn well mean it. if i caught him cheating via chatting with girls on the net or any other way, that that would be it.
EDITED: gee, i just love what karry says! good going! there are more than one way to kill a stone with two pidgeons! hehehe!
2007-01-19 20:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,all guys are dogs,so they check out anything that can walk.Seriously.Um.....your boyfriend does it alot though,so I look at it as a sign that he mind end up cheating on you.My sisters husband has the same problem as your man,and my sister has found condom wrappers and everything that she knew nothing about.It probably wouldnt do me any good to say dump him,because 9 chances out of 10, you wont.All I can say is look for signs that might make you alittle bit more sure if your boyfriend might end up cheating on you.Then if its pretty obvious,dump him.
*If you dont care,answer some of my questions please!*
2007-01-19 20:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry girl most red hotted males look at totty. At least you know he is not gay. Try dressing up in something a bit different for him one evening -spice things up a bit you might be pleasantly surprised. I know it is hard but don't do the jealously thing . Perhaps you feel a bit insecure.
take care
2007-01-19 20:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by lolly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at other girls doesnt means that guys always cheats. Dont worry dear.. he wont cheat you.. its just a fantasy & as he has stopped doing it why are you worried? Men cannot stop looking at other girls.
2007-01-19 20:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys look at other women. I'm sure there are a few ..who are in a relationship and don't look at all.
Sit down and talk to your guy about how you feel.
2007-01-19 21:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys look, and we will always look. It does not mean we will cheat. But whether we're honest about it or not, we will all look and you just have to get used to that.
2007-01-19 20:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by nope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Jolly 1
2007-01-19 20:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys look at other women. Get over it.
2007-01-19 20:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋