hello, im a 15 year old guy who is in love with a 14 year old girl and I have been in love with her for a long time now and I want us to be together as boyfreind and girlfreind. So I was wanting to know if its ok to ask a girl out like on a date just to see a movie or to get sumthin to eat...Then if she says yeh, should i tell her how I feel about her while on the date and see what she says and then if everything seems like its working out, should I ask her to be my girlfreind? Im also not sure how to ask her out on a date...Would this be ok?: Hey, I was just wondering If you're available 2night cause i wanted to know if u would like to see a movie or get a bite to eat or sumthin?
2007-01-19 20:20:45 · 6 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont say "I love you" too soon. Ask her favorite movie & take her to that one & not the one YOU like.
Better take her to some other place like bowling alley or video gaming or some other place but movies... IF she likes those too.
2007-01-19 23:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely ask her out to a movie or something easy and fun.
DO NOT get all "I love you" or spill out your feelings to her on this, the FIRST date. She'll run away so freakin' fast. If the date goes well, ask her on another one. After a few dates, tell her that you LIKE her a lot and you'd like to be exclusive with her. Wait until like six or seven dates to do this, though. You've gotta hold the feelings back a bit or you'll look pathetic and needy (neither of which are attractive).
Your last line sounds like a great way to ask her. Keep it simple but don't make it for THAT night. Ask her on like Tuesday or Wednesday for a Saturday date. If you ask her for THAT night she might already have plans. Make sure to get her phone number and give her yours if she says yes, in case there is a problem.
Ask her for a SPECIFIC activity on a SPECIFIC night. Women like decisiveness but also be open to any changes that she suggests.
If you get nervous think about this: If you don't ask, then the answer is always no. So take a deep breath and go for it!
Good luck!
2007-01-19 20:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could always ask her out early, so just in case she has plans, or has to ask her parents if she can go out, ya know?
now if you ask her to get something to eat, you have to sit face to face and chat, actually talk. now if that is something you feel uncomfortable with, like you don'ot know what to talk about or whatever, ask her to a movie, that way you don't have to talk and you still get to spend time together. OR go on both, dinner and a movie. if you guys hit it off, you can always see if she wants to do the same thing, say, next week or something, or if it goes REALLY well, kiss her at the end of the night and see what happens. i know when i was younger the whole "i like you, you like me let's go out" is a lot easier than the adult "take you out on a date, then a second, then a third and then maybe we'll be exclusive" type of thing.
main thing is, don't get too attached right away, just go as a friendship type of thing, and if you guys like each other, ask her out to be your girlfriend.
good lucky buddy!
2007-01-19 20:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say Hey, I've been wanting to see this movie for the longest, do you want to come watch it with me this saturday? If she says yes than good job, and don't jump into telling her how you feel already give it some time. Theres no rush. You're only 15!
2007-01-19 20:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by karry l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this:
(Wondering around technique)
Are you doing anything fun this weekend? I was wondering if you wanted to go watch a movie and maybe later get something to eat...
(Straight up technique)
Are you going out with anyone right now? I was wondering if you wanted to hangout sometime...
Take her to the movies and ask her what she wants to watch (You do not decide).
When you go to drop her home, say "Hey, I had a really good time....(little while later)...I think I like you, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out." (Say this line after two or three movies...Don't jump in...)
2007-01-19 20:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mafia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good way to ask the girl out.Just have fun there's no need to get all serious .If she goes out with you that means she likes you.If you spend the date waiting for the chance to tell her how you feel you might not have as much fun.You're both young so more than likely you might have someone older tagging along.They might freak out if you start saying how you feel.So just ask her out and just have fun .Good luck!
2007-01-19 20:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋