I WAS getting married in march. My fiance broke up with me and the only "excuse" that he gave me was; (in his words) "That I don't deserve a man like him, he deserves better."And he say that he loves me but that he knows that someone better is "outside..."
He was very cruel to me. He even took my ring off! and he returned where he bought it!!!
(he told me!!) why in the world I will want to know that?)he broke up this month, a week after he ask my parents to marrie me.
I was devastated! he kept calling me and saying that he loves me, he wanted to have sex, I am a fool because I accepted to see him last week. Two days ago I decided to walk away and forget him, and he WANTED TO COME BACK WITH ME when I decided to not see him anymore, and today he don't want anything with me anymore.
WHY HE IS DOING THIS TO ME??
He knows that I didn't do anything wrong in the relationship and that I love him so much.
I decided to go to Spain to study and forget him. I feel that my lovelife is over.
2007-01-19 20:19:41 · 15 answers · asked by shantabelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say you don't need a man like him and you deserve better. Your boyfriend was probably not ready for marriage yet and he proved this to you by his immature way of handling things. Just think that later in life you will be with someone that is so much better for you in every way and he will be completely regretting breaking up with you. This guys seems like a jerk and you wouldn't want to marry a jerk?...right?
2007-01-19 20:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you shouldn't go changing your life because he is a jack in the box. You should actaully stay away from him because he is unfortunately looking for a good time and that probably was the reason that he asked you to marry him anyway so that he would have sex freely with you because he is promising you marriage. Live your life for you and for noone else. Let for and forgive him which might take some time but don't forget. If you want to go to Spain to study noone is against that but it should be for the purpose of studies not to get away from him. Hasn't he done enough already anyway. Make him understand if he comes back that he already made up his mind to stay away from you then let him keep his decision. You love life isn't over and you shouldn't throw the towel because of this guy he doesn't deserve you and it happened for a good reason.
2007-01-20 04:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to even give this guy the time of day. Getting as far away from this situation is the best thing that could happen. Consider yourself lucky that he broke it off now and didnt wait until after you were married. Now you know that he is a total creep before you get even more emotionally involved. You dont need him, and believe me, all guys are not like that so you will meet someone much better.
2007-01-20 04:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ray G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that about the wedding and all. You are better without him. I am a man, and would never do that to someone, but there are plenty who would, and I know there are women too, so it's not one sided. You deserve better. Close him out. He does not deserve the caliber of woman that you are. Get out there and make something great with your life, and do not look back on this scum of man, coward and user. Good luck to you. I am taken, but I promise you there are plenty of good men out there waiting for a great woman like yourself to walk into their life too.
2007-01-20 04:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by phantom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off without him... He was the one being a jerk, not you. Your love life is not over, Im sure you will meet someone new when you are ready for it. Your best off to have a bit of a break anyway.... You are doing the right thing - just steer clear of him - YOU deserve better than him.
2007-01-20 08:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Eve M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry sweetie,but your love life isn't over just over with him.You don't deserve him he was right about that.Your to good for him.Better he did this now then after you married him.I know it hurts now but just know time heals all wounds and your better off without him.What a pig he is shame on him.Good Luck!
2007-01-20 04:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This looks more like he was expecting something from some other but didn't get it. I'd advise you to be alert if you accept him again. Better goto Spain & study & forget him... he was right.. he cant deverse a girl like you.. he is such a @#*$&*& .. I just cant get an appropriate word..!!
2007-01-20 04:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up otherwise you will regret it. So many fishes out there. I almost gave up 4 times, I realized stupid me. It hurts, I know... promise me you will never give up. Find someone else that you deserve.
2007-01-20 04:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea stay in Spain girl, keep studying, and forgot about that dude.
2007-01-20 04:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by karry l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a trash...never get back to him if he treated you this way. Move on with your life, concentrate on what's important for the future, most of all, studying...Good luck!
2007-01-20 04:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by teen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋