I've been going out with this guy for about a year. I really liked him. He moved, and well i missed him so much. Now, he calls me everyday from where he is, and well I don't feel the same for him anymore, and we're on the phone talking about NOTHING! I get bored, but yet I still stay on the phone.Is this the ending of my relationship??
2007-01-19 20:11:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES!!! And it sounds like you are so scared to let go that you will suffer through his boring conversations instead. It's okay, these things happen. The important thing is being able to pick yourself back up, and move on.
2007-01-19 21:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, or in my honest opinion it should be. And i'm not saying that to be mean, its just the way it is. Why stay on the phone if you dont want to? Dating should be fun and if its not get out, move on, and get on with your life. It is hard, but do you want to be sitting on the phone talking about the weather and all that fun stuff a year from now?? I didnt think so.
2007-01-20 04:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ray G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the sure thing is that you don't have any feelings for him right now and that's because long-distant relationships are not easy to retain.You should let him know that your feelings have faded away to let him move on with his life and I suggest to find an other guy to turn your interest to.Hope I helped!
2007-01-20 04:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical distance creats emotional distance and to some extent this comes naturally.. no one can do anything about it until and unless you both decide to talk about it and do something about it....
it is difficult to say whether it is an end to your relationship because , things can change anytime..... it you think ur realtionship is worth giving a fresh start you can try.. otherwise let the time decide....
2007-01-20 04:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it sweetie!
try to end it as gently and as swiftly as possible!
you both deserve to find happiness and the longer he hangs on to someone that doesnt feel the way he does, the harder it'll hurt when he finds out the truth! (and all the longer you'll have to endure those phone calls!! = ) )
good luck!
2007-01-20 04:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by jessiblu_83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are very, very hard. This might be the end for you two, sorry to say.
2007-01-20 04:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. Move on a get a man thats closer to you
2007-01-20 04:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id move on for sure..If he moves back then you can always rekindle..no reason for hard feelings..But you still have your life to live..
2007-01-20 04:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't give up so easily. Just work it out, and talk it out, and find some way to visit to see him, or find a way to move, so you can see him everyday.
2007-01-20 04:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by jasondorsey2001 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Typical woman- outta site - outta mind- get real and tell him you like someone else!!!
2007-01-20 04:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by todd 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋