I am wanting to go out with this girl. I think she likes but the problem is i am not the same race as her. She's white and i am an asain. My parents are my main concern. Any one got any thoughts??
2007-01-19 20:11:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about your parents. If she makes you happy then they should be happy with the relationship. Ask her out and just see what happens. Good luck!
2007-01-19 21:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is your own ... with that being said clearly your parents opinions are apart an important part of your life...
I say approach them before you even ask the girl out... go to the one you feel you have an easier time talking to.. let them know that you have an interest in dating outside your race you respect them that is why you are telling them in an up front ..they matter.. you hope they will respect your choices...
you have to be ready for anything but not to be too attached to them giving you hugs kisses and a blessing this may happen but don't expect it..give them a chance..you know it 's better to go in with a strong offense then a weak defense... where you went behind their backs..
Hope you date and love who you want..
GL
2007-01-20 04:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by UmaCat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately ask her out, life is too short for regrets. Dont worry about your parents, you have to live your own life, and I'm sure that if this girl makes you happy they'll come around eventually.
2007-01-20 04:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by kizzarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u dont have 2 tell ur parents. If she loves u then she'll also go out with you. And if she isn't then im sorry but maybe it just isnt meant to be!!!
2007-01-20 08:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents to meet her. Ask them to give her a chance. Convince them that all you want to do is date.
Another way is to lie to your parents. Take her out behind their backs. Tell them you are going to hang out with your friends, but go out with her instead.
2007-01-20 04:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mafia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a date not marriage, its not like your bringing her to meet the folks. Ask her out and have fun, worry about your folks when the relationship gets serious, if it ever does.
-NmD!
2007-01-20 04:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuff parents its your body and your life.
If they love you they would be giving you pulling tips and dad lending you the car to impress her.
It will be your future too.
2007-01-20 05:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should hide it from your parents as bigger problems may arise if they found it out later.As for the girl,go for her don't have any worries.
2007-01-20 04:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt worry about ur parents, as for her - if she likes you and you like her - i think you should go for it
2007-01-20 04:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Immortal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋