Im a big girl, i dont think im ugly but i dont think im very attractive either....Are there honestly any guys who get with girls strictly based on personality? I mean i appearance place some part in it...but you know what i mean? lol
2007-01-19 19:32:34 · 13 answers · asked by melinda_trvn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of coarse there are !
even if it takes a while.
if a guy can't see you for you
then they aren't good enough for you !
2007-01-19 19:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes Yes Yes
After the sex and time spent goin out whats left??? The feelin the man gets from bein wit that female.
Females wit no personalities dont get as far as girls that know how to talk and treat a man. Ive been wit girls that look look like models but have too much space between the ears.
Girls that know how to deal wit a man end up wit a HOME, KIDS, and a life wit a smallest amount of worries possible.
2007-01-20 03:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, there must be the initial phsyical attraction to produce the desire and interest to take the action to go further. Once the personality begins to allign with what the man likes in a woman, she just keeps becoming that much more beautiful
2007-01-20 03:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than just personality, although that is the main factor for a lot of decent men out here. Confidence is just as important, if you are down on yourself even a little guys can pick up on it. Confidence coupled with a great personality will lock a man up no matter how big or small you are. My advice is take sometime and learn to love yourself more, you got to love yourself before you can expect anyone else to be able to.
-NmD!
2007-01-20 03:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not personality alone. Guys are trying to figure out the whole package and attractiveness is the first thing they see unless they are visually impaired. Some women who are confident and carry themselves well will always make themselves attractive in that way.
2007-01-20 04:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not initially i think. i have a few guy friends that had unattractive girlfriends but theyre really nice. they didnt like them at first but then they became friends with them and saw how beautiful they were on the inside. it didnt work out in the end though because you DO need some kind of physical attraction, but being big is just a small impairment. especially at my school, bigger girls dont have a problem getting boyfriends, but maybe thats cuz i live in the south.
2007-01-20 03:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah there is, but you have to be a tramp or 30. This isn't right either. Heavy girls are beautiful, but young guys are stupid and look for girls who are tight(body wise). One day they'll look at you in a whole differant manner, then you can tell them where to go.
2007-01-20 03:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by todd 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I completely relate...I'm a bit heavier than I should be as well. There are guys out there. I found mine on the internet. It can and will happen for you too. Try online...it can work. Good luck :D
2007-01-20 08:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's rare but it also out there...but on the bright side...if u did find one....dat mean it exist...and he's a keeper...as for me...i like a balance of both...it's best dis way...but dont even trip...im SURE there are guys out there who are attractive to u
2007-01-20 03:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by kd110 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course personality is important. I don't like girls who are materialistic, petty, plastic, silly and vain. I hope this answers your question.
2007-01-20 03:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick H 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋