Ok see a lot of dude going out with much younger girl what have they possibly got in common, he must be a perve only interested in sex and manipulating a poor innocent girl who does not know anything about the world tripe.
Why dont people think a much more realistic situation...
Girls mature faster then boys and generally have better social skills and have it a **** site easier ( as in the guys generally have to do all the pulling work whilst they just sit there and look pretty, likewise in bed and the girls get to pcik and choose for the most pathetic things like horoscopes)
Therefore girls unlike popular myth get laid a lot more, have more relatioships, stay in them longer etc. Also body clocks and all that.
Whilst many of the guys get f all experince as started slow so effectively missed the boat, everyone else progressed as 'in the game not outside it' therefore realting to those their age whilst many guys can only realte to those younger then them.
2007-01-19 19:28:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rest of q.
Or how about this... guys dont grow up in there interests...
Ie try and pull 17 year olds say as they still like sitting in the same grungy rocky, ravy, alternative type clubs where they liked going at 17 , Sitting on the floor, moshing, dancing with glow sticks, moshing, stage diving and crowd sufing, going for the girls who thoguht it fun to flash boobs. And make outin front of frinds against the walls if the clubs, same interestes in cinema, travelling, having fun, dancing, having funky multi coloured hair etc etc.
Hanging out with large mixed groups of mates having parties and a social life.
As said dude hate suits, or 'appropiate' (ie hypocritical boring), polite well behaved (ie no singing, dancing, debauched party games and the unofficail dope room or garden with snog corner) dinner parties yawn. Not into staying at home and discussing curtains etc.
2007-01-19 19:33:47 · update #1
In a same way those in late teens and early twenties going for 15 year olds and 16 year ols or say 17 year old guys with 14-15 year olds as still at the.
How do you tell if a guy/girl likes me, how do I get them to notice me stage.
Ie nothing to do with manipulation. Simply maturity and the older one being very inexperinenced and into young social party life?
Genuinely falling in love and caring.
And going for fiesty,mature, girls who can kick the butt of anyone who made them do anything they did not want to, who know exactly what they are doing and want.
Ie tomboy break dancer of the club with a bad biker girl motorbike
Whilst its those who are mature, are experienced, wehre manipulative when youngr (ie cherrie pickers) who are now the say manipulative and mistreating people they always were and the true perves who care nothing for the girls they go with.
Or is it that those crying perve where the ones who mistreated girls when younger?
2007-01-19 19:39:02 · update #2
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In the UK the age of concent is 16, most are dating below and sexauly active after 16.
Most are in pub/bars by 16 even though offical drinking age is 18. Most where nightclubbing in chosen music scene from 16/17. Certianly partying by then and practically every girl Ive come accross as mates by 16 pretty much knows and done it all and is fairly confident with guys.
Most have steady boyfriends and more confident then the guys, have done more sexaul stuff then the guys...
Discussing fuk friend, serial monogomy, where they've done it like beaches, roundabouts, golf courses, with rick stars etc in truth or dare games.
They know exactly what they are wearing and the effect it has on guys, Several where very fiesty, several have moved out of parents home and flatsharing by 16. Pretty much independant
So looking from that angle
2007-01-19 19:43:44 · update #3
Its just... Can't drink as much as those older but trust me they try... Have a real problem with people getting too drunk to early.
And as smaller tend to hang out in bigger groups.
Hence having prefered alternative clubs where they were more into the musi not how much they could drink or get high on.
By mid twenties you often end up with no mates as everyone coupled off.
Hence people wanting to date younger girls poss as they get to hang out with a group of mates again
2007-01-19 19:46:33 · update #4
The older 16s would be with older teens or early 20s not 50 year olds.
Plus my description was accurate... I have never met these innocent nieve, 16/17 year olds you refer to... all the ones I knew where drinking, trying dope, shagging around or had steady boyfriends and shagging them.
And going to parties, making out in public all the time. And going to foam parties ie dance floor full of foam, everyone get wet and on the pull.
Or going on holidy for what could described as nightly drinking competition and seeing who can shag the most people in a week.
If not with already.
Plus have penty of mates where the 16 year old mate was dating the 20 something mate no different to others and all snoggy and happy. And in all cases the guy was the innocent inexperienced one and the guy was the confident one who had had the most dates.
2007-01-19 21:31:26 · update #5
fuk u
2007-01-19 19:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-07 10:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is as long as the age is legal & both are wanting the relationship then who gives a crap about the age difference! Im a woman (mid 30s) & I only date younger men. My last live in boyfriend was 20. YUMMY! It didnt last long at all because all of his friends thought it was disgusting & he faltered under the pressure of keeping his "popular" group of friends. Screw what "society" thinks is normal & right. Live your life the way YOU want.
2007-01-19 19:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by do_U_kno_? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think age matters, on the other hand I'm not going around chatting up 80 year olds...
2007-01-20 01:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on age. Once a woman is over 21, anything goes. She can date anyone of any age. Under 21, it's kinda weird. Under 18 it's downright gross and illegal in most states.
2007-01-19 19:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually you're right in many aspects.
There are young women who are lustful and crude.
However, there ARE many women who are respectful and innocent before 20!
2007-01-20 19:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay of the crack pipe!
16 is very young so your suggestion that it should be lower and accpetable for older guys to date them without being called a perv, is misguided.
2007-01-19 19:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by raggyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to justify some of your own pervy behaviour or what?
2007-01-19 20:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by la.bruja0805 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for the right one
2007-01-19 20:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats one way of looking at it.
2007-01-19 19:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋