my boyfriend brokeup with me 2 months back inspite of me convincing him so much still he broke up for a silly reason .... when we were both together he had gifted me a few things like pendants ,earrings,watches,etc... wat should i do with these ???these were kind of sentimental when he bought these for me sayin tat whenever i come to meet him i should wear these like tat he told me and even i used to wear those whenever i went on a date with him......but now when i look at those it all seems to be so silly , funny, useless b coz it was he who brokeup wit me first for no reasons atall .........wat should i do wit these should i return it back to him or should i dump it an any corner of my room or throw it in waste bin ??????? but anywayz now after the breakup i dont ever feel like even looking at them (they r also bit costly stuff)
2007-01-19 19:18:27 · 11 answers · asked by ROCK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put them in a little box in the back of your closet somewhere and forget about them for the time being. You never know someday these things might be important to you.
2007-01-19 19:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put them in a box and put them away somewhere, in the storage room, ur closet , under your bed, wahtever. Cuz, regardless how bitter it is right now, many years from now, you'll look at these little things and cherish the memories you once have.
i STRONGLY suggest you don't give them back to your bf, b/c it appears to be childish, desperate and/or disrespectful. Trust me, I know, i've done it 3 times, with the same gift, to the same guy. (yes, we also broke up 3 times if u may ask)
2007-01-20 03:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice if you want to wear them and if they look good on u then you should wear them. If these things were that sentimental DON'T give them away or anything like that. When you look back lets say 5 years from now your going to want to remember that relationship. So my advice is keep them or store them, like in a box or something like that as long as you keep them.
2007-01-20 03:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Baby C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me he was using that as an excuse to break up. Keep the items he gave you even though you may feel they are silly. Later in life you will have these keepsakes and they will bring back good memories. You should never give back the gifts because guys will just give them to their next gf. And who wants the next ex to have your stuff.
2007-01-20 03:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to sell these items!...unless you think you guys are getting back together, because he would get really mad if he found out you "parted" with them. But if you guys are through and you don't even like seeing them, pawn them. Maybe keep your favorite piece if there is one, but if not that is sweet revenge/recovery what-ever!
2007-01-20 03:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what was the silly reason? Since he gave them to you, they are technically yours but the items might make you feel uncomfortable keeping them if you two don't reunite. Seeings how they are sentimental, i would keep them.
2007-01-20 03:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by tjloyal4806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he broke up with you, they are yours free and clear. You could either sell them, ebay them, or give them away as gifts (let someone enjoy them) and in a final act, melt and destroy them.
I wouldn't give them back. I'd sell them.
2007-01-20 03:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pawning is good or wait for someones birthday to give them away...
2007-01-20 03:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by J-Bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pawn them or sell them. Then you can see how much they are worth. $$$
2007-01-20 03:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are worth something, sell them on ebay.
2007-01-20 03:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋