If you don't have very much money for dates etc, how are you to find that certain someone without being titled " loser ". If money isn't so important, then why do so many relationships end because of a lack of money and the comforts it brings?
2007-01-19 19:01:22 · 15 answers · asked by solokingcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it is true love you won't need dates or gifts or anything. If someone really loves you truly they are going to want to just spend time with you nothing else matters.
2007-01-19 19:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by ballerinaprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've pretty much got it figured out already. It's not money that fosters love, it's the comfort that is the by product of having money. Money gives you time to be with your loved ones and the options to do fun thing with that time. But if the love isn't there in the first place, money can't make it grow.
So, I guess the way I see it is that the stress of a severe lack of money can tax a good relationship to the breaking point. But all the money in the world can't make a bad relationship worth staying in long term.
2007-01-28 00:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a king look for a Queen or the other way around. what do they have to bring to the table. Money always help ease the pressure and as long as the two can survive it should not matter. remember that success is a good thing and look at the animal world the one with the best nest usually gets the mate good luck
2007-01-20 03:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by captainmooncatcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. You can just be there. I fell in love with my best friend and she never spends money on me at all. Its all about the friendship and the comfort level. The thing is when you do have money dont try to buy anything expensive get something that is close to there heart. For example buy them there favorite movie or something like that.
2007-01-28 00:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money does buy love look at Donald Trump. You think those women would want anything to do with him if he was Joe blow that lived down the street. HELL NO. any women that says that money isn't important in picking a guy is lying through their teeth.
2007-01-20 03:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up hope - you can find love without money. If it is really love, money will have nothing to do with it. Money does make things more comfortable, but it does not make emotions.
2007-01-28 02:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's reality. Yes, ideally money does not have anything to do with love..not with emotions. But nowadays, with poverty around, practicality is more of what people have and they lose sight of what is called as true love. Some people prioritize what is in sotre for them or their children in the future. They ask themselves, if i marry this guy or girl..what it is for me in the future? Can he provide what i need? Can he bring my children to school? Can he bring me to the place I love to see? Can he provide me with nice clothes..nice house? Are we going to be living comfortably for the rest of our lives?...Questions like these.But we can not blame these people especially if they had bad experiences living in a relationship with lots of love but no money..nothing to eat..nothing to bring their children to school..they fight and eventually end it all up.BUT there are also couples who got married without love..all fortune and live a miserable life. It is..I guess lies on the person's choice. We can not dictate what they feel neither we can not put love in their hearts. But one thin is for sure...they have to stand up for their choice and later accept the consequences. Besides, the real foundation of logve is God..nothing is impossible. Hope this helps. God bless
2007-01-20 03:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody is going to date MONEY! There are a lot of modern girls who would like to pay for themselves or just won't look in your wallet. But be careful - they need a real guy, I mean your personal characteristics should shade this lack of money.
2007-01-20 03:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Natalya Ch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money doesnt have to do anything with love but its big on a couples everyday life, if financial problems start happening on a daily basis and you guy argue about stuff more often then the love start fading little by little unless you guys have a plan and support each other.
2007-01-28 01:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Suicide G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all girls are materially inclined, girls need someone who they can rely on, someone who will always be there, you just to be transparent to the girl you are courting, and being honest will earn points for you. Just show to her how much you love her not by showering her gifts, what is important is you respect her and you love her.
2007-01-22 00:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by P Ni Ka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋