I posted one abt 2 weeks ago, if you read it then recall that I was the one who's parents were too strict. Well this ended up ruining our relationship of three months about 3 days ago. (My parents wouldnt let me stay at her house, she is 15.5 I am 17, I told her that I loved her and that the relationship shouldnt depend on that, she obviously still had feelings for me and I have feelings for her but she says she cannot go on like that.)
Yesterday I wanted to break the silence between us so we talked, and then I got home and she told me she missed me, and still reali did love me, and of course I responded with the fact that I was still in love with her.
So then she calls me at 5:15 AM, it was very tough for me because I knew we still have feelings for each other.
She also wants to talk to me/see me today, and I have a feeling that If I can play the right cards that she will be willing to get back together. What should I say?? Plz help...
2007-01-19 18:51:48 · 7 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her you are sorry but it was out of your hands. if i was your son i would do the same, but i know where you come from go get-em tiger
2007-01-19 18:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by unit ® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talking about sleeping overnight at her house, I dont blame your parents for not letting you stay, nor would I blame HER parents for not letting you stay, shes a little young to be having a boyfriend stay overnight. I have a 16 year old son and I wouldnt let him have a girlfriend stay overnight at my house either. If you both still love each other try and work things out but dont push the idea of staying at her house with either your parents or her parents, that will make both sets of parents push you further apart. You both need to show your parents that you care for each other and that you want to be together and be responsible while doing so. You both are young and both have the rest of your lives to live together when you get older... dont rush, take your time, as long as you know that neither of you dont want to be with anyone else then you have nothing to worry about.
But if you want her parents respect then do what your asked, if you go out, have her home on time, treat her with respect and you will get respect back. Good luck and I hope everything works out for the both of you. You both sound like you love each other and want to be together.
2007-01-20 03:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can drag it out playing the cloak and dager game untill shes 18, but you might get statutory charges slaped on you as soon as you turn 18 if her parents dont want you around. my advice is to walk away, play the cards with other girls, then give her a call on her 18th birthday.
2007-01-20 03:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault. If you both want to be together and enjoy each others company, just hang out together and don't get into serious issues until you are both older.Just have fun for now.
2007-01-20 03:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by pansi1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I urge you to say I am sorry about what went wrong. We need to work it out and remember I love you today, tomorrow, and forever.
2007-01-20 03:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her about your parents and take her back
2007-01-20 02:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want her back
2007-01-20 02:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋