we broke up like in sep. n in nov. we started like kissing n now its getting more serious he wants sex..we never had sex before and i asked him what were we and he said dat we migth go back together any min. but then he said we will defenily will get back with me if we were together he says that dat will bring us closer and that he will love me more i dont know what to do i love him but i want him to get back with me cause he loves me and not cause he wants sex...how do i really know if he loves me or he just wants sex? what should i do?
2007-01-19 18:47:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh n yeah did i mention dat he lives right next door 2 me
2007-01-22 18:39:07 · update #1
He's only saying that to get you to have sex with him... He has no intentions on getting back with you... So don't fall for that girl... Tell him that if he wants to **** something to go **** himself!!!
2007-01-19 18:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I know men very very very well!!! If he really LOVE you he will wait. I know men are very horny especially when they get close, like kissing and stuff. But he said he will love u even more, so what's that mean? look if ur not ready ur not point blank. Yeah u love him and care about him, and wants to get back with him. Tell him that if he really love u he will wait. I can't believe I'm going to say this but Some men really feel closer to a woman when they are sexually active. U know what If he can't love u even more that means he doesn't know what love is. . Either he loves u or just leave him. Its tough but its better for u, don't go into a relationship u are not sure of point blank.
2007-01-20 03:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by empress29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you want sex with him. So go ahead and just do it. But I would like towarn you that "He is only for sex and will leave once he gets that". So go into it with a numb mind and expecting only kinky stuff. Go slowly, dont give him all at once .. make him wait and that way u will screw up his head and he will turn out to better some day. If u r that nasty kind of person, u will get some fun by making him crave.
So just do it , after all you too want tht !
2007-01-20 03:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by thesinmon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a trick. If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then sex wouldnt matter. Ive been across some guys who have pulled that same line. Dont give in to it. Once he gets it, it is very possibly that he'll stop talkin to you. Guys are cruel and vindictive like that, and the only thing a woman can do about it, is to be smarter. good luck
2007-01-20 02:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect yourself and not have sex with him just so you can get back together with him. It wont work that way. If he really loved you, he would not put that kind of pressure on you. You deserve better.
2007-01-20 03:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so naive. it's very obvious that he only wants sex. it's a very stupid condition to get back with you. if he really loves you, even if it takes 20 years w/o sex, he will never leave you.
2007-01-20 03:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if he wants sex... that's not love..The only way to really know is to have sex and see if he sticks around
2007-01-20 02:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex so that he'll go back to you?! yeah right.
don't go for it. if you agree, you'll always wonder: did he just get back together with me for the sex? hmp. he's just pressuring you to give in to him. afterwards.. well.. you know men.
you better go find someone more worthy.
2007-01-20 02:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by january 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think it's all about sex, not about getting back. I'm pretty sure about that actually.so just forget about him. you deserve a better guy than this.
2007-01-20 02:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Top_secret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easy don't have sex with him yet and see if he breaks up with you when you don't if he breaks up with you because you don't have sex with him then he is just using u and lon't love u
2007-01-20 02:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋