If you were 24 and your 17 year old girl friend you loved was moving away to college (2hours away) would you stay with her (long distance relationship or break it off? what if my b/f broke it off with me but calls every two weeks and wants to keep in touch adn maybe get back together one day - but he is now dating others. does he really love me and hope to get back together? does it make sense that he broke up with me b/c he wants me to enjoy my college life and all and the long distance was hard?
2007-01-19 18:34:35 · 12 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only 2 hours?!
it is not long distance R.
i kept my relationship!
& about the second Q. ==> GET OVER HIM
2007-01-19 18:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you were dating for more than a year, he was a 23 year old dating a 16 year old. I cannot tell you how wrong that is! What the hell kind of 23 year old would actually date a 16 year old, or even 17 year old still in high school? He's really messed up. I know you might not be able to see it but he's totally taking advantage of you. He probably only sees you as a stupid, hot young girl who he can play for as long as he wants. He DOESN'T love you.
Stay FAR AWAY from him. No 24 year old man should date a 17 year old, let along what he might have done in the past. That's illegal in some states.
Take a good look at yourself. You might need some therapy. Your college should have free, confidential therapy for you. Consider going to it.
Other than that, drop this guy real quick. He's totally playing you. If he's not then he's a 24 year old who dates high school girls, which is totally gross and messed up. Find guys your own age.
2007-01-19 18:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I see a gap between you and him. 7 years is very big gap. Now it is up for you both to make it works. If you both love each other no matter how far you are apart, you will try to find each other. 2 hours is nothing and he can drive to see you or you can drive to see him. You two can take a bus to meet each others. The question is up for you to ask him whether you both want to continue your relationship. If he does not want it then you move on. Do not wait for him while he is dating another woman. By the way you need a new life in college. Remember there are so many fish in the sea I am sure you will find someone. But if you both believe in the magic of love then Long distance means nothing.
2007-01-19 18:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would if I loved her. The thing is that if she left for college then there is no way i would trust her, even if i loved her. I would rater break up with her and let her do her thing then stay with her know what she will do.
I know you say that you are very good. But it is not you who I worrie about, It is college guys. I am 25 and spent a long time in college and i mean longer then van wilder, and i know how collge guys operate. If you are a virgin going into college, you will not come out that way. If you are in a relationship when you go for college, then college will turn you into a cheater.
You will have on moment, one bad day, over the phone fight with boy friend or mom and dad, bad test, someone was mean to you and there will be plenty of guys there to help you through it. And with the amount of beer involved and knowing no on will find out the temptation id too much.
I suggest you listen to him and if you guys are meant to be then one day you will be togather. There is no reason for you to make promises that you will break....and trust me you will break them.
2007-01-19 18:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Brown Bomber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT's been said already,"2 hours " is NoWay a long distance relationship.
IF this is the thinking then there is no love or relationship
2007-01-19 18:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by syd_torana4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably realized that you'd end up cheating on him anyway, or becoming miserable about being tied down and ending the relationship badly.
I hate to say it but once you start seeing other people the relationship is doomed.
2007-01-19 18:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 hrs is in no way a long distance relation
2007-01-19 18:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved her than leaving her wouldn't even enter your mind as an available option here. Sorry but this doesn't sound like love to me, if it is than he has a funny way of showing it by dating others.
-NmD!
2007-01-19 18:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it never was."
Can you take it from there or should I spell it out? This is for your sanity, by the way.
2007-01-19 18:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by wise_ole_sage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance romance seldom works out.
2007-01-19 18:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋