hi i have a problem with my wife wife .when ever i want to do sex with her she always refused bcz during sex she feel great discomfort .i can not take her to doctor due to family pressure .she is always in depressive mood .is there any medicine who would divert her toward sex n she enjoy sex when ever i do sex i feel i am rape her bcz she did not show intrest ,what i should do
2007-01-19 17:59:26 · 7 answers · asked by ali 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
To say that you will not take your wife to the doctor because of family pressure is just stupid. If your wife is having discomfort during sex, something is wrong. I can speak from experience. I had endometriosis, which is very serious. Not only does it create extreme pain, but it can also cause her to not be able to have children. And as far as the depressive mood, that is no surprise considering that the fact that she is not feeling well. Quit worrying about the family and take care of your wife - she is your first and foremost concern. Also, if she does not want to have sex, don't guilt her into it. Take her to the doctor to find out what is wrong before you create more problems.
2007-01-19 18:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by MissyChele 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Woman has very sensitive nature. Her sexual desires are mainly based on internal harmony and love. She can even feel pain and have physical problem if she is forced to have sex. You said that "she is always in depressive mood". There must be a reason for it. Why don't you try to talk to her? She may have a problem or you may not have paid enough attention to her due to your work or family matters. Be gentle and open with her; do not insist on something that she does not want to do. Your help, understanding and support are very important for her. Demonstrate your love: bring flowers, invite her to some place where she likes to be, say nice words about her. As soon as she will be confident about your sincere concern, about your love and respect your sexual life can immediately improve.
2007-01-20 03:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by nmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only should your wife see a physician (possibly a gynocologist) she may also benefit from visiting a mental health specialists, such as a psychiatrist, psychologist, social worker, or mental health counselor so her possible depression can be treated (You may also benefit by making an appointment for yourself too). If finances are an issue (I can't immagine any other reason why you can't take your wife to see a doctor) consider visiting a publicly funded mental health center, such as those funded by state, city or county governments. The cost of many services that they provide is calculated according to what you can afford to pay. So, if you have no money, or very little, services are still provided. This is called a sliding-scale or sliding-fee basis of payment. In addition, if money is the issue you can also contact a local county or state operated clinic for a medical appointment for her, these clinics also offer a sliding scale fee.
Take care.
2007-01-20 02:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mary R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your wife above your family. That is how it should be. Be strong and take her to the doctor. Insist on it. Don't let your family pressure you. If they ask why it is because she may be sick or need medical help and so you MUST get her help, because that is your duty. They may complain but they will respect you for standing up and doing what you know is right. You can do it!
2007-01-20 03:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family pressure? Forget the family. This is important. Take her to the doctor anyway.
2007-01-20 02:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by grotereber 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She's not married to her family, but you. Take her to the Doctor.
2007-01-20 04:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by queendebadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee I never did sex with females.
2007-01-20 02:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by zyp_john 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋