i hv been going out with this girl but she seems to be shy in holding hands..
2007-01-19 17:53:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the first time a guy held my hand.. and i think the easiest and best way for a first time like yours... would be to take her out to a movie and just slide your hand over and grab hers..... if it is on her lap that is..... because if she wants to hold your hand she will not have them folded or whatnot.... so you can tell that. and maybe she gets so nervous and her hands are sweaty which she thinks would be embarrassing for her..... if the movie thing doesn't work out then you should just walk close next to her i guess and slip your hand into hers.... good luck!!!!!!! :)
2007-01-19 18:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try walking close beside her, and 'accidentally' bump into her hand with yours every once in a while. If she doesn't pull away or anything, she might just be waiting for you to take the initiative first. Perhaps at the mall or something, if you see something (ex: a store) that is interesting, you could use that as an excuse to grab her hand and guide/pull her towards that place.
2007-01-20 02:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AMUSMENT PARK !!!!!!! hehe ....riding those super riders like roller coaster ..n when the ride goes to the highest point (with all screams n all ) hold her hands ...hehe ..btw she wanna to react , the ride n go down so fast that she'll forget ..when its back to normal , uve alrdy holded her hand for a min ..so ..yeah lol ..
2007-01-20 01:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it. She's probably not quite ready for that sort of thing yet.
She's going out with you because she sees something in you that she likes. So try to be that guy that she likes. Don't be macho. Just be a nice guy, and as she gets to know you better, she'll get to like you better, and eventually, she'll want to hold your hand.
And from there, friend, it only gets better. Best of luck to you. :)
2007-01-20 01:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by White Dude X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show a speed, when you were talking on any topics, point out at her hand, and hold her hand.
2007-01-20 02:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by I am here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow on her. give her a chance to get used to u. and when you think shes ready, try to hold her hand casually, like when your walking or something like that
2007-01-20 01:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by glossy, flossy, & fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try accidentally on purpose brushing your hand on hers and see if that works or tell her you want to hold her hand either way good luck :)
2007-01-20 01:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to give her the hint and maybe she'll catch on. Many women dont like guys who move things quickly and are rapid.
2007-01-20 01:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Unloved4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt like it, but whenever you approach her kind of sneak up to her and slide ur hand to hers without her noticing.
2007-01-20 01:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by introverted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may feel like that if she does that then it will be okward. my friend has the same problem just give it time. hope all goes well.
2007-01-20 01:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋