2007-01-19 17:45:12 · 16 answers · asked by billy-bob Joe-bob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how come all the hot girls are going for the jerks/badboys, even though they are so mean... i cant understand it, im really nice to all the girls at my school and they never EVER go for me.... ive gotten some really nice compliments about how nice i am but they still just go straight to the jerky dumb kids...................
2007-01-19 17:59:13 · update #1
Yup! That must be why we keep going back to them! Even if we say no I'll never (whatever) again with a man like this! It happens to the best of us...It is what we are use to and that's what we know! Even tho some women really truely do learn from it and dont go back to loving jerks....but we do! We cant help it!
2007-01-19 17:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. i used to hang around with the "in" crowd. I'm 44 so listen up, i know what I'm talkin' about. back in my day, it was long hair, acid rock music and psychedelic drugs. looking back, and i never had a big girl following either, my problem was i was hang in' with the crowd which had no following. believe it? the "in" crowd was nothing but a bunch of sheeple following the first sheeple that started to walk away from the crowd and not knowing where anyone was going, even the leader of the crowd! it took me many years to figure this out. so here's what i did; i became clean cut-cut off all that long hair, shaved/showered every day, stopped doing drugs, quit smoking so many cigarettes, stopped hanging around the sheeple, and got me a decent job. and lone behold, just by acting normal, women started paying attention to me. try it, act normal, BEEEE normal, and you'll get the good woman. it works!
2007-01-19 18:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by kendog299 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO jerks are... well they're jerks! why would you like them.... jerks who show off and think they are tough shiz for girls are just stupid and are more concerned about their ego then their girl... and a girl deserves better than that! the reason girls like the bad boys and "jerks" is because they think they are cool and some girls are attracted to that ego and reputation because they want to be a part of it..... and those guys make them feel good.... so basically girls just like the idea of those guys.. not them for who they really are.
2007-01-19 17:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more specificly, they like fun bad-boys. Girls don't really know what they want so it's better that you don't ask them.
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Being nice is actually about the most unattractive thing to a girl who isn't looking to settle down yet. Start treating girls like your bratty little sister and you'll get better results
2007-01-19 17:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by goiowa6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes u do like a jerk cause their mainly the cutest but i would rather have a nice guy.
2007-01-19 17:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Some girls who aren't well adjusted may, or well adjusted girls who don't yet know the guy is a jerk may like him for a while, but - in general - no.
2007-01-19 17:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i hate jerks! unless if you dont hang out wit them alot and just think there hot i might ...
2007-01-19 17:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Crazystuff <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loll i hatee jerkss! thyree so self conceited
2007-01-19 17:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by luhb u much!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i despise jerks, bad boys mayb, but not jerks
2007-01-19 17:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by glossy, flossy, & fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh no. what girl likes a jerk. we more like bad boys.
2007-01-19 17:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by laker4lyfe92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋