I want a goods humanbeing, but i confuse how to find the man and woman, when trust some one, after some time i saw she or he not able for trust. i alwayas failure and dipressed
2007-01-19 17:40:58 · 22 answers · asked by bandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just look in the mirror!
2007-01-19 17:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a good human being.
If you can't find a good human being, then I'm afraid there's somethin wrong with you. You really need to be a good human being by yourself first. You know what there are a lot of bad guys who respect really good human beings. Like even a mafia pays respect to the best teacher he had ever met....
Goodness never goes in vain. in your case it seems to be a matter of trusting people. That could possibly be your own insecure psycho coming into play. You gotta be dynamic. A personality with a kind heart and a good sense of humor. Its only then people around you would notice you and they would love to be on your side..... Trust me, it would work...
And lo... what a coincidence.... I'm a bad guy too :-)
2007-01-20 10:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been trying for years. You just have to make sure you listen to what the other person says and if there are any untruths then you know you can't trust them, We some times want something so bad we look over things but you can't anymore because these people that aren't honest are making it harder each time for us to reach out to anyone. Plus if you have sex then your life can be in jeopardy. So take your time and watch the person before you get involved and see if they are what you want, try to trust your instinct. If you feel something is wrong then just go the other way. Don't feel depressed their is someone out there for you.
2007-01-20 01:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people are good, as long as you add value to their life.
Most friendship also start from this point.
Many peoples trust requires commitment, sacrifice or long term good relationship to obtain.
If you take your responsibility in relationships, you will obtain trust. But don't expect everyone to be the same. Be prepared for the worst and accept the worst. There are so many opportunities in life that you don't have to be put down by failure. Just learn step by step.
2007-01-20 01:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Hansinchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open all ur seven senses in judging others. Also give up the prejudices about race, community etc. You will naturally hit across a good human beings.
2007-01-24 01:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Monee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read, listen to all types of music, get active in sports or some hobbys. You will become so mature and such a well rounded person --- that good people will find you.
2007-01-20 01:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in this life-time. Men lie and cheat. There is no such thing as honesty so always trust issues. Goodluck in finding someone who is true and doesnot want to cheat.
2007-01-20 04:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you're looking for is a perfect human being. there is no such thing. but if you are looking for a trustworthy, loyal, friendly human being, there are so many out there. all you have to do is look for them. go out, be friends with others. but first, be a loyal and trustworthy friend. it will take some time, but you will find him eventually. you have to work on it. but it will come. be patient.
2007-01-20 01:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to find a man or a women and you are in the singles dating section. Which team do you bat for?
2007-01-20 01:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want a good humanbeing too but i look to myself first for that after that its all extra
2007-01-20 01:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by kelly r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't just find a good human being. you have to meet and get to know people and then you'll find some who are good human beings. don't judge people based on how they look or they're appearance. they may be an angel in disguise!!!
2007-01-20 01:51:32 · answer #11 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋