My boyfriend in Jail probley for 6 mouths...He wrote me letter ...he mite get out because i wrote to the judge about him...anyways...im reallie depressed i mite be pregnant. i wanna go out have fun like i use to but i love him to much to go anywere im so week and tired.. and he dosn't like me going anywere he dont like me around people girl boyz anyone ...now that his in Jail i unno if i should go out or not cuz i feel gulty!
2007-01-19 17:33:48 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I was in your situation, I would probably dump him. He's too controlling and he's heading his life down the wrong path. I wouldn't want to walk that path with him. I'd rather have a good life and make decisions for myself that I feel good about.
2007-01-19 17:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go out and do you if you love him you wont cheat on him because if you think about it thats really the only reason he doesnt want you going anywhere. He's afraid you might cheat. I have had bf's in the past that have been locked up and in your same situation. Trust me as long as you are real with him, let him know you are going out and with who. Let him know he can trust you. Dont let it depress you because if you are preg thats not healthy for the baby or you.. There isnt a reason why you cant go out and have fun just be grown about it. Dont over do it. Enjoy some time with friends or family and do easy going things. Dont let any man tell you what you can or cant do. You let a man know what you will do and what you wont do. He will learn to respect you when you are open and honest with him. Dont feel guilty about a thing unless you are in the wrong. For this you definitely arent. So stop feeling guilty ok? Take care!
2007-01-20 01:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by boricuba_ma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he is in jail doesnt mean u have to put ur life on hold for him if he really loved u he would want you to live ur life to its fullest. mayb u should talk to him bout it????? but under no circumstances should u stop doing what makes u happy.
2007-01-20 01:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl go out and have fun live your life, you dont have to be miserable because he is in jail
2007-01-20 01:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by just_missp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋