well he is my first boy friend,we've been together for 4 years,now i'm 20 years old,and he's 24,now he's asking if i want to merry him,what should i do?should i tell him, no and breake up with him bec.i want to enjoy my life,them get merried or accept his proposal?but we always fight.what should i do?
2007-01-19 17:26:38 · 10 answers · asked by yvette v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are always fighting now i wouldnt recommend you get married right away. You have to work out your differences before moving forward into the next step in your relationship. You are still young and if you know you still want to enjoy your life then dont get married right now. You could get engaged but hold off on the marriage. I wouldnt say break up with him unless you dont really want to be with him any longer. Just make sure of your decisions before you actually follow through with them. Im glad you asked this question before doing anything. I hope I was of some help. Good Luck!!
2007-01-19 17:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that you not ready or at least unsure of how you feel about this situation. Marriage is a huge decision and it is something that you need to be 110% sure that you can be with this person in good standing for at least 100 years. You really need to do some soul searching, but while you're searching remember to think about these things... does he not only love you and respect you but does he make you laugh?...because if he makes you laugh then that means he makes you happy and ultimately that is (if not the most important thing in a relationship it is) a very important factor! Choose wisely! You can't change what you feel and he cant hold your feeling against you so tell him exactly what your feeling with your heart on your sleeve. If you know your not ready, let him know! REMEMBER!!! Do not lie to yourself, It is not fair for either of you two. Good Luck!
2007-01-20 01:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its important to have a good talk in any relationship. It looks like you are not sure of your feelings towards your bf. You should have a good talk with your bf about how you feel and you need time to analyse your relationship. Tell him you want to enjoy life now and its always better to give some space in your relationship.Take some time and then decide . No relationships are perfect and there are occasinal fights too. Hence its not a criteria to analyse your relationship.
2007-01-20 01:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by naina y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with him and let him know what in your
heart not what you think he want to hear. if you are not happy with
him then get marry will not do anything but ruin it, if you want
to do more for your self then you need to do just that. it normal
to feel as you do , he was the first and you have only been with
him so you might want to date other you are still young.
2007-01-20 01:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too young. tell him the truth that your not ready. if it doesn't work out there's so many in the sea. love goes on and on. remember nobody is living your life but you!!
2007-01-20 01:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry him, you will be miserable all of your life.
When someone proposes, and the person even has a second thought, they should NOT do it.
2007-01-20 01:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i think you should just wait and say you are not ready, and that you want to enjoy your life .
2007-01-20 01:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Margaret R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need more time. and keep your own friends to do things with if that's part of it.
or if you don't want to be with him, tell him no. if you straight out say no, that will be it with him.
2007-01-20 01:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him like a hot potatoe,then go shopping,and i dont mean milk and bread.
2007-01-20 01:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by likeablerabbit_loose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what is that you want in your life ...
2007-01-20 01:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by skrishna_mba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋