everytime i start liking a guy and he starts liking me, i stop! that sux haha
2007-01-19 17:11:13 · 12 answers · asked by luhb u much!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what yoru going through because that happens to me. and i have an explination for it. the reason this happens is that you are very competitive deep down. so when you like a guy and you dont' know if he likes you back it adds to the competitive factor of wanting to get what is possibe yet you dont have it yet. so then once yu have him he seems weak and vulnerable because you aren't chasing him anymore and he is just fawning all over you. so there for the chase is gone and so is the compitition leaving you with a guy who you have no interest for because he isnt interesting anymore. so then you move onto another compitition and repeat the cycle. my resoultion to it is that you have to find a guy that will keep you on your toes and you aren't really sure if he loves yu alot. thats what i say and good luck it hasnt' happened to me yet but i wish you lots of luck.
2007-01-19 17:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Nessers V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens for a lot of girls. Its a psychological thing. You want something until you get it, because the fun of the chase is over. Once a guy starts liking you, you know you 'could' get him and you no longer find it a challenge.
2007-01-20 01:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you where interested and then you saw him for what he was and it changed how you felt. Or your chemicals in your brain changed. No chemistry. Lost chemistry. I've done this before, and usually if I date them any how it was a mistake so listen to your instincts is what I call it
2007-01-20 01:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think the chase is the best part. My friend calls it "Catch and Release".LOL
2007-01-20 01:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i now this girl that used to hate my guts for about three four years and just last weak she starts to like me and now she sits by me and talks to me its kinda creepy.
2007-01-20 01:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by DarkDejection(JF) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it shows you like to flirt around. I would like to hear you tell me that you likes me and then stop loving me.
2007-01-20 01:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kinda weird, though sometimes I wish that someone who I like would like me.
2007-01-20 01:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Shiro-Chan :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL sounds funny to me. i hear it more with the guys than with girls but i guess it happens.
2007-01-20 01:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by brendi ^_^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say "licking"?? That's hot.
2007-01-20 01:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that's weird.
2007-01-27 21:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by babyi'melectricc. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋