I dated this guy since i was 15 and he was 14, we never really had a relationship it was just sex, now i am 22 and he is 21, Now he has a girlfriend and is about to get married, and he told me he does not want to see me any more, because he does not like guys any more is that possible?? and i also found out that besides me he was playing around with 2 other guys...Should I tell his Girlfriend about it?? Is he Gay?? what do I do, the thing is that i think I am in love with him!
2007-01-19 16:51:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, tell his girlfriend. He might not consider himself gay, maybe just bisexual or even straight with homosexual tendencies. But hell, if he's doing all this stuff and then hiding it from his girlfriend, that's bad. You shouldn't be in love with a bisexual player. That's never gonna work out.
2007-01-19 16:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO!!! Charge it to the game. We all hear about gay guys who have kids cuz they went through a time of "sexual identity confusion". It could happen the other way round. You guys had no real relationship-you say so yourself. And if you really do love this guy give him the best wedding present you can- your support. As for the other two on the side; you were NOT in a relationship! He had the right to. Do you only eat at Mc D's, or since you are not under contract do you slip over to Jack in the Box once in a while? Relax, don't be a Drama Queen; and if the wedding doesnt work out you are in place to take him back having been so supportive....
2007-01-19 17:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell his girlfriend. He'll probibly deny it. The decision for him to get married is his and the reason I bring this up is because he will hurt her when he leaves or cheats to find a dick. I don't think he can give it up just like that. I know I couldn't, but I'm not a guy either.
2007-01-19 16:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should leave the relationship with dignity and not tell the girlfriend it just makes u look bitter. Mayb he is bi???? or trying to deny who he is and what he feels. It hard when u r in a relationship and when its over u cant get over him i think u need time to get over him eventually u will and move onto someone new and better.
Good luck
2007-01-19 17:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I don't know. You say you "never really had a relationship." I think you should have a heart to heart with him and find out what's going on. If his gf doesn't know about his past love life, she probably should. But, I don't think coming from you is the way for her to hear about it. Good luck.
2007-01-19 16:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For all of u.s. speedy to respond to, there are 2 facets to each and each tale. i'm the supposid gf and no he did not clearify that i'm his mistress and that he's married. He promised to go back right here and spend a existence with me.after a million excuses he keeps and it truly is only his recent excuse on why he wont come be with me so now that I actually have opened my eyes and that i'm transferring on and ending the courting he's disenchanted. This became my fault i blame no man or woman yet myself and now I actually have opened my eyes and that i'm transferring on. i wish now that u all see both facets to the tale you could opt for to respond to extra appropriately. I choose him the perfect on the supposid weddings that he will be attending at the same time with his spouse of 20+ yrs.....hes disenchanted reason he needs me to nonetheless stay on the sideline and that i refuse I actually have finally woken up. thanks all.
2016-11-25 21:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just experimenting and got bored with it, it never "meant" anything to him, and you are better off forgetting about it. Love is a two way street, if it doesn't go both ways it's just an obsession and they're never healthy, better he is cheating on someone else than you. And maybe he decided he likes boobs.
2007-01-19 16:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is gay or bisexual but has decided this is what he wants to do. It is not your place to out him to his fiance. Both of you were too young to be in such a long term relationship. It's time for you to move on, experience life, and see what else is waiting out there for you. Let him go . . .
2007-01-19 16:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by searious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is prolly just denying himself. Or maybe he likes girls more. There is no way that he can be with you for so long and not be gay. Maybe he is tired of the world judging him and just wants to try to be normal
2007-01-19 16:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its a well known fact that straight men who date women instantly lose their balls and become slaves. i theorize that the same thing happened to your partner.
in all seriousness, though, hes just running away from himself and a truth he doesnt want to believe, and never will. He is probably scared of his own sexuality, like everyone else on earth. but what he did to you was cold and asshole like. if his own relationship is based on a lie, it doesnt exist anywhere but in your friends head. so my complete strangerly advice would be to tell her, and watch him come crawling back to you.
2007-01-19 16:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by vincent c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋