Do you guys think my ex cheated on me while we were together? Since we broke up 9 months ago, a friend of mine told me she heard he had a girl pregnant, and a couple months later the same friend told me that a relative of hers talked to my ex and he told her he had a new baby and was living with the mother of his child. But I know he is not the kind of guy to just come out and tell someone all of his business like that. So I called and confronted him and he got REALLY MAD and he denied that he had a baby and I don't know whether to believe him or not because it seems like no real man could deny his own flesh and blood. Deep deep down on inside I STILL LOVE HIM SO MUCH. He also calls me every once (I mean once) in a while just to chat and even comes by every once in a blue moon. The last time he was by I asked him what's going on between us and he said nothing, not yet. What is that suppose to mean? WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK ABOUT EVERYTHING? PLEASE HELP!
2007-01-19 16:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by Betty Crocker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off the obvious; he is your ex so anything that took place then is past old news and can not change anything now. Unless YOU let it! Secondly, you think you are still in love with him so no matter what he says you are still gonna like him. The question is whether or not he is gonna ever like you? Keep pressing him over the past and any future you may have together as friends, or more, is history. Let the past go!! IF he has a child then that is HIS problem--not yours! Let HIM deal with it. But if you do want to be friends keep in mind this situation may point out a few character flaws you were not aware of and may end up NOT loving him quite so much....
2007-01-19 17:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and walk away ther is so many men out there who would want you, if he loved you it would not take 9 months apart to get back together, people who rally love each other are back togehter in a few weeks
2007-01-20 00:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up for a reason.
Do not get back together with this guy.
Sounds like he is looking to use you as a booty call later.
If you don't have any kids, then move on and stop contact with him.
2007-01-20 00:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds kind of jerry springerish. but you are lucky, as long as you have some contact you might have a chance to work something out. you never know. I wish my ex still cared enough that i could stop by and she would be happy to see me. good luck
2007-01-20 00:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but if he did why do you care now, that he
your ex, what ever is going on with him it really is non of your
concern anymore, he your ex for a reason. so just leave it
along and move on, it best for everyone.
2007-01-20 00:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Cut the cord and move on. 9 months and you still love him so much. Why? You're broken up with him. Move on. He don't care about you no mo.
2007-01-20 00:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's lying to you. Just leave him be if this is true. You don't want to be involved in a situation like that. you'll get over it with time.
2007-01-20 00:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go with you're gut instinct.I know it hurts badly to let go.But,you should try.Just cut all ties.You deserve so much better.
2007-01-20 00:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It's over - it's been a year now.
Forget him and move on.
2007-01-20 00:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe YOU should visit where HE lives?
2007-01-20 00:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋