I've beeen with my boyfriend for 3 yrs.We have a little boy together. He's posesive and aggresive. I'm not happy in the relationship anymore. i'm interested in some one else and they might be interested in me, but my boyfriend keeps on ruining my chanses with the new guy. The new guy is okay with me haveing a little boy,he loves kids. i dont know what to do! can some one please help me!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 16:47:06 · 5 answers · asked by ppop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are not inters ted in this relationship anymore then do something about it, time to leave it along, he can stop you
from dating someone if you are not together, sound like you
need to move on.
2007-01-19 16:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful. I work for Child Protective Services, we are the ones who visit people's houses and decide if we should take their kids away. Most of the cases we get start out like this, with an unmarried couple who have a baby, the boyfriend is kind of jealous and violent, etc. Be a good mommy and make your first priority your son. Do whatever you have to do to keep him out of harm's way. Even if that means leaving your boyfriend, but if you do, please just stay single and focus on your son. If you don't you might have CPS knocking on your door and taking your boy away.
2007-01-19 16:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by bellyyo62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you fix your current relationship at all? Is there any hope?
If not, then call a help line in your city for advice on where to go and how to get food vouchers - if it comes to that.
But are you just bored with the current guy? Why did you have a baby with him in the first place?
2007-01-19 16:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this seriously. you are planning to destroy something you and your boyfriend had established -and that is a family. do you think this other guy will love your boy as much as the real father does?why not talk to your bf first and clear some things that you think is affecting your relationship? you're not only thinking of yourself now, girl! there is also a baby boy that will be affected by what you are planning on doing. think first. think hard.
2007-01-19 16:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about your problems.
2007-01-19 16:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋