can you love a poor guy and be happy with him without money ?
2007-01-19 16:47:04 · 12 answers · asked by ann 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes ,you can ..
I believe in real love ..you can live happily with a poor guy with love better than living without love with a rich guy .you might sometimes feel you deserve more but at least you dont feel unhappy inside,and thats what really counts ..
I dont say thats easy though but love makes everything possible ..
2007-01-19 16:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your definition of poor. If he works hard and makes an honest attempt at a living, then definitely. If he's just lazy, won't work, or takes a low paying job when he is qualified for much more just so he doesn't have to work, then there's no way any self-respecting girl would pursue a relationship with him. For example, my fiance and I are living paycheck to paycheck and robbing Peter to pay Paul on a regular basis. But he tries, and so do I. We have jobs that we don't particularly love, but we do what we have to so we are surviving till another opportunity presents itself. I couldn't love him more. It really depends on the person, and how much they are willing to sacrifice to take care of what is really important.
2007-01-20 00:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there has to be some kind of a middle line between "love" and the "Real world"
We cant always look for the real love, we just have to learn to compromise and find the balance between love and what our needs are and what is right realistically.
2007-01-20 00:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, working together to solve problems is part of the relationship. People don't have to stay in one situation their whole life. Encouragement, wanting better for one's self and motivation can change the way things are. There is always a way to make things better.
2007-01-20 00:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by used2Bafraid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u mean poor..no he has to have a job or else he is poor which means he is not smart.. money is not all woman cares about but my best advise is to get a job don't be poor!
2007-01-20 00:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by Holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How poor? It is very difficult to be "happy" if you are struggling to survive; $ struggles are extremely stressful. And this is coming from a romantic!!
2007-01-20 00:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is more important than money.
2007-01-20 00:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can love a poor guy but i can't asure that u'll be happy with him...but if its true love...who knows?...maybe u will be happy no matter what
2007-01-20 00:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Baby Dory*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love, that says it all.
2007-01-20 00:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-20 01:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋