I Feel Hurt..?

Question

Ok, there is this guy I like but... My best friend said that he said to her that I was ugly, weird, walked funny ect. I not sure if thats true and he said that but i also trust that my best friend wouldnt lie to me for a guy but I just cant feel sure. I feel sad and mad that someone could say that and not at leat tell me instead of my best friend and not b etold a year after I wish that hw would change his mind and i also hope he did. I dont know what to think or do can someone plz help?

Answer 1

Hi Math is a waste!!!

Sweetheart, look!!! Please!!!! Don't do that to yourself!!!!

If the guy, doesn't like you, hey is his loss!!
You have to understand first of all that everybody is entittle to their own opinion whether we like it or not.

And as harsh as I"ll will sound, honey; no one really
"HAVE TO" like no one!!! So don't be upset about this. You shouldn't wish to change his mind, because chances are, eventually you shouldn't be with him in the first place.

You express yourself as being very young. I'll will advise you, to take this experience and learn quick in life, that most of the times things are NOT, as we would like them to be!!!

You are asking for help, but what I'm telling you it will bre kind of hard to understand, and follow.

As he telling your friend , what she told you, I would NOT even pay attention to that. When a person put one down, you shouldn't even give that person the time of the day!!!

If you have douts about what your friend told you, the truth is you will always be in dout anyway!!! If you ask him, you will find out that, unless he tells you that she is lying, you still will be in dout, because he might lie to you too!!!!

So please, forget about it, focus in other more positives things, and live your life for what YOU are, NOT for what any looser may say, (if he said it or not).

It doesn't really matter damage is done!!! You'll see form now on you'll be in dout of your friends, and you will always have the uncertainty, that what he said was true!!!

You need to move on. No one deserve that much attention over something like that!!!

But most of all, remember this, never ever put any efforts in "CHAGING" someone, because you will never do it!!!
All you will find out is that you waste love , time, pride patience,and dignity, and the person never chages!!!!

Forget, move on, study hard, be responsible, become an active member of society. And you will feel much beter!!!
Go to church, pray, help, others. This are more iportant things other than feeling hurt about a stupid comment!!!

It doesn't matter how rich, pretty, intelligent, etc., a person is there is always some one that don't like that person for one, two, or many reasons!!! This is NOT new, and the sad part of this story is that it will continue to be like that.

I wish you the best, but most of all , I hope you learn this fast, so you don't go through life, letting others, make you feel inferior!!! Wake up, look the other way, keep on!!!

GOD BLESS YOU, HAVE A HAPPY LIFE

ALLIV Z

Answer 2

I know this will be very hard for you...but approach him and tell him what your friend said,after that ask him if its true.The reason why I'm telling you this because maybe your friend likes this guy, and just doesn't want you to go out with him,even thought she's your best friend...the less expected person in your life could be the one betraying you.TELLING you this from my own mistakes...I was in the same spot as you were.

Answer 3

Just trust your best friend and find someone else unless she likes him too, then she is a lying ***** and wants him, so keep trying to talk t him like a good friend and win him ovet, by the way girls are not to be trusted when it comes to cute guys so you might not belive everything ya hear from her

Answer 4

Don't let this get you down, you are beautiful. People are so hung up on looks that they limit their chances to find true love. Beauty is definitely skin deep and even people who are reminded daily of their looks can be ugly inside and that shows on the outside, trust me. They are very shallow. So, just because he said that(if he did) your friend shouldn't have told you that unless she wanted to see you get hurt. She had to know it would have so, is she truly your friend,or does she want him for herself? Hmmm?

Answer 5

Well if you trust your bestfriend then trust what she is saying is true. Everyone has there own opinions about things and people. You cant make everyone like you. Stick close to friends or people that could become friends.

Answer 6

sounds like you are hurt cuz of your friend more than anything.
dont get the two mixed up.
consider this a red flag with your friend and depending on how stable this guy is to make a decision of his own then decide weather to put him a red flag too or not. just know who you are. that is all that matters. hon okay.

Answer 7

Maybe your friend is trying to get in the way because she likes him too or just doesn't want to see you happy cause she is jealous.. One of my old best friends started to act pretty strange once a girl we both liked liked me.

Answer 8

She likes him? Ask her first, then ask him. Follow your heart and gut feeling. How old is she, may I ask? If she a high school girl, drama,bull
s--t are two of the most common qualitiesk. Good luck

Answer 9

never trust your friends,go tell this guy how you feel or atleast drop hints .flash him that will get his attention... sometimes friends can decieve so dont ever leave your destiny in your friends hands be bold step up

Answer 10

maybe he does like you. i dont know how you are but usually when we r interested in someone, we tend to go back to our childhood years, you know when you like someone and you hit them or call them names in order to hide our true feelings. Well little kids do that....and as we get older...well we sometimes do that too. So...think about it, dont feel bad :) Cheer up