If your girlfriend gave you hints, suggestions, etc, on how to turn her on (in a polite way, of course), would you get mad and completely ruin the moment or take the hint and make the effort?
2007-01-19 16:35:18 · 21 answers · asked by bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, my boyfriend takes it like I'm complaining about what he's doing....then gets mad and ruins the moment which hurts my feelings and again, keeps us from having sex which rarely happens anymore =[
2007-01-19 16:44:34 · update #1
Can you let him know everyone likes different things and you don't expect him to read your mind?
2007-01-19 16:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more a girlfriend takes control or directs the better... if you do it in a polite way its a TOTAL TURN ON. Just be like, try it this way baby... it makes me super wet. That would DEFINATELY work. I would definately pay attention because the point of all that is to please the other person. I don;t think many guys would take it as an insult. If we never got suggestions or hints, how would we ever improve?
2007-01-19 16:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mature male, with confident in his abilities, realizes: Hey, I make her HAPPY! and she will make me HAPPY! So he will follow her suggestions. Hints. And read her reactions to what he is doing.
Someone who is not confident, might take it as an insult. (Why don't you just xxxx and let me finish what I wanted to do.) Or they could be self-centered.
I've been married 22 years. My wife and I have a simple method. She's the boss this time. Next time, I'm the boss. But that doesn't mean - a lot of hints fly from both sides while we are together.
2007-01-19 16:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by John Hightower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the hint and make the effort...the key to any relationship is good communication why complain when you are communicating and she is telling you what she wants. Go with it she may be suprised at your willingness and it will turn her on more and inturn she will do the same for you.
2007-01-19 16:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about her, Therefor, I would take the hint and make the effort.
2007-01-19 16:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 02:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by rhona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is good she is telling you Communication is a graet hint in a relationship, so she would rather you be the one to turn her on or she would have to think someone else would know what to do already, so the girl is telling ya what she wants from you, so she doesnt have to think someone else already knows how to please a woman, just make her happy and you will be her man for life, or if you dont do it then she will think someone else will
2007-01-19 16:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people take it as a blow to their ego. I would talk about it...not in the heat of the moment, but sure i would make the effort, BUT I dont have a girlfriend :D
2007-01-19 16:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint she is trying to make it better for the both of you.
2007-01-19 16:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the effort of course.
2007-01-19 16:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint if you don't want to be seen as being selfish
2007-01-19 16:43:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋