Ok, problem started when a few months ago I realized that she looks very depressed when we go out together. But always trying to hide it and pretend to be happy, after some weeks (may be some days) she got worse and I saw her many times that her eyes are wet and she is silently crying and she tries to hide it. When she notices that I'm watching her she tries to control herself and pretend to be happy. I talked to her about her cries and depressed mood, but she only told me that she has a problem, and I never got the details about it. She sometimes looks very stressful too.
Can this be just a clinical depression?
Can this indicate she has other relationship which make her feel guilty and make her cries?
Any other ideas?
2007-01-19 16:17:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you truely care for her, then let her know you are there for her, maybe suggest couples councling, then slowly ease out of going so she has individule sessions to help her out....
Let her know you care for her and are there for her, those are about he only things you can do.....
personally if she didn't seem happy then I would think that it was me and try to ease out of the relationship
2007-01-19 16:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she dosent have other relationships. She could be clinically depressed because of many reasons, such as death or health problems within the family. There are many reasons why she could be depressed. You should ask her whats going on and tell her that you can't help her unless she tells you whats going on. Tell her that your there for her at any time.
2007-01-19 16:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other Idea; She is cheating on you and doesn't want to hurt you by telling you. Regardless........I would not put up with that ****.....dump her *** and date a "happy" girl. Relationships are too hard to wast time dealin g with basket case BS like that.
2007-01-19 16:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE SHES PREGNANT AND SHE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU THAT SHE IS - SOME GIRLS CRY WHEN TEHY ARE SCARED OR CONFUSED AND WORRIED
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-19 16:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's very strange.
doesn't she cry when you guys don't go out? only when you go out?
2007-01-19 16:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tryumph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋