I don't like her, last year i said yes but didn't mean it, her friend made me, she gave me 20 dollars becuase of the things she told her. how do i tell her i don't like her. i'm not a mean person. HOWWW????????????
2007-01-19 16:12:25 · 31 answers · asked by footballdepo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her. Unless she's some psychotic girl she'll eventually get over it. If she doesn't take that well, then you can always tell her what her friend did. It will take the weight off of you.
2007-01-19 16:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by mandapandaz80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your not sure you like her you could always go on a date with her, a dinner, a game, a movie, a walk on the park.
If you dont like her at all but your too nice to say so then you should be direct and say you would rather just be friends with her. Don't show any signs of potential relationship. Don't give her any hope that makes things worse. Shes going to get hurt no matter what so its better to just be honest with her. Don't be mean but don't lie to her either.
2007-01-20 00:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth about what her friend made you do. say she's a really cool person, and fun as a friend. but say you're not looking for a relationship right now. then, try to stay away from her for a while...it'll give her some time to forget about you ---that recovery/forgetting period is really important. make sure you don't talk a lot. make a point to be interested in other girls. you won't be mean -- don't worry. it'll help her in the long run.
2007-01-20 00:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to her you know____________ I think your a nice person and all but im not really into you and You deserve someone who will want to be with you and treat you right. I'm not that kind of guy for you. I'm sorry things didn't work out the way you would have like them to go. But i have to be honest with you. Your a sweet girl and you'll find someoen jsut right for you.
2007-01-20 00:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even as a friend, cause usually thats the best line, you know i think we should just be friends, but if not even like that Just be honest and tell her you dont like her, yeah it may sound a little mean but then you arent wasting her time or yours.
2007-01-20 00:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by KRISSY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. You were munipulated by that freak friend of hers. Tell her how it went down. And that you don't mean any harm. Tell her you're really sorry. Also she has the right to know that she has an evil, uncaring friend.
2007-01-20 00:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by lokzmariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make up excuses because if she finds out, she'll be more hurt. You dont want drama either by telling her what her friend did, it'll make the situation worse. Just simply tell her you don't feel the same for her, and maybe you guys could be friends (if u want). alsoo-- dont do it over the phone or IM. & definetly dont tell your friends to do it for you. :)goodluck.
2007-01-20 00:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by jennyferr_x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make up stupid lies because that'll make it worse and you can't just tell her flat out no because i hope you at least care about her that much. You should sit her down in a private place and tell her you're very sorry but don't like her in a bf/gf way and you just want to be friends. but you need to be considerate of her feelings too.
2007-01-20 00:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a mean person!!
how can u ever play with anyone's emotions bullshit!!
be genuine tell her that u dont like her....
and that u said yes because her friend made u do this!!
2007-01-20 00:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just gonna have to tell her how you really feel. sometime you just have to hurt peoples feelings just so they will get the point, you can try it in a nice way first....think of it this way you are being more cruel to be leading this girl on and on
2007-01-20 00:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋