My boyfriend James. Ok well today when his parents were around after school he didnt want to give me a hug and he kinda usually does well sometimes and he kinda said it in kinda weird way. How do i know if he is gonna brea up with me? Because i have a bad feeling that he is gonna break up with me. Anmd he is moving to another school in 2 weeks. So if anyone could please help me by emailing me please because im really sad and worried and confused! Please help!
Thanx
-meagen-
2007-01-19 16:06:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey there meagen, first of all you are worried about him breaking up with you but, maybe he is worried about you breaking up with him. i mean he is moving in 2 weeks to a different school and all but i think the most important thing to do is sit down and talk to one another and actually get the inside scoop on what each other thinks about everything and then you'll know what to do. Trust me it works!
Morgan
2007-01-21 18:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Morgan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really sweetheart. My bf and I just split last week and I didn't want to break up either. I'm still in love with im. THe thing with guys is once they've made up their mind they are going to break up with you, they are going to do it. Now it just depends on afterwards if they reailze they made a mistake or not. It sucks and it hurts and you'll be angry, sad, frustrated, and worst of all your self esteem is going to go down the drain but you know what.... it might be for the best and who knows if you ar mature about it maybe later down the line you guys iwll get back together or whatever. don't hound him... we all know guys secretly also pms so maybe it's somethign entirely different. Sit him down and talk to him. Dont' probe to much just say you've been acting a little distant ( insert your own words here) just wanted to see if you were okay? That's innocent enough and not too much like you are freaking out or whatever.
2016-05-23 23:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....
There's your answer right there:
***He's moving to another school in two weeks. Give him some space. He's probably upset that he's making this move. Or, maybe he isn't. The only way to find out these things is to ask him. You need to just come right out and ask, "James, you're moving to another school in two weeks and you're acting very strange around me. You wouldn't by chance be planning to break up with me, would you?"
***Very simple...
You can even say, "Hey look, James, if by chance you think we should break up, I will understand. I am mature enough to know that your move to a new school might make you feel a bit confused and if we take some time away from eachother so that you can clear your head, that'll be cool with me. Call me when you get settled in your new school and we'll talk about going steady again."
Something like that....
Good luck...
2007-01-19 16:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're really sad about this feeling you have, but you know what? You don't know. Maybe he was uncomfortable giving you a hug in front of his parents. Maybe he's feeling really sad about moving to a new school and is worried YOU are going to break up with HIM.
So many times people have problems in relationships because they make assumptions.
And if he does decide to break up with you, he wasn't right for you and you need to take some time and then find someone else.
Dating is about trying out different relationships until you find what's right for you. If he does break up with you, think about what it is you want and then use that as your guideline regarding who you'll date.
2007-01-19 16:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut. It is usually right on. It is not the end of the world cause he breaks up with you. He is probaly on the whole I am going to another school and can find someone else better deal...you never miss what you have until it is gone. Girl if he breaks up with you truly it is his lost and that makes way for the guy you are suppose to be with.
2007-01-19 16:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you think he is going to break up with you, ur instincts are correct. I am guessing u guys are young because he didnt give u a hug as a good bye etc. etc. if he is moving in 2 weeks maybe he is going to breakup with u.
Or he could b just sad that he wont b with u and because he will hav to break up with u.
2007-01-19 16:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if mom and dad don't approve. Maybe they're afraid that you two are becoming "too" close and if you two are in high school they are probably right. I know you probably don't want to here that but take it from me. I was a teen mom and parents know better on this one. He is moving soon and will meet new people it's just postponing the inevitable. Better to brace yourself or better yet you end it first.
2007-01-19 16:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Eulalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie, it sounds like you have a lot of feelings for this guy, and I hope all works out for you.
If you are suspecting that he's going to break up with you, why don't you just confront him? Ask him straight out how he feels about you, and then prepare yourself, be strong, in case he gives you a bad answer.
If he gives you a bad answer try to keep encouraged by being around other people, e.g. family and friends.
I wish you luck!
Betty
2007-01-19 16:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk to him and tell him how you feel and get his response.. Even if it's hard to do.. Just don't write a note. Just ask him point blank.. maybe thats what he wants or he's just to nice to hurt your feelings and sometimes guys won't say anything.. Just talk to him and you'll feel better.
2007-01-19 16:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by snatza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meagan, you and your boyfriend are in a relationship? Then talk to him. If he's moving away then I guess I'd say he is going to break up with you.
2007-01-19 16:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋