2007-01-19 15:37:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, dont listen to these girls. you can love you wife, but get stuck in a affair. stuff happen. sometimes things like this happen uncontrollably. the best thing(and hardest) is to tell your wife or whatever and see if it your strong enough to go through that. if you can go through that you'll most likely never cheat again.
2007-01-19 15:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lost Drifter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not unusual. Most times when a man loves his wife and seeks compassion outside of the marriage it is usually because as a child he experienced somethings that effected him that he carried into adulthood and never was resolved. See a therapist to help you resolve child hood issues and this would help you in your marriage. You are not a bad husband, you just need to get some guidance to help you dispose of child hood baggage that is preventing you from totaly commiting.
2007-01-19 15:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Netta D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the most selfish bullshit ive heard in a long time. If thats your idea of love then God help that poor woman. Lets hope good fortune shines down on her and the child and finds them a real man and father figure because your only going to ruin both their lives. What your doing is not love!!
2007-01-19 15:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by vmmc_64 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You face up to the fact that you don't really love her or the baby, tell her, move out, get a divorce, pay child support, and never see her again. Best of all, you give her back her freedom so she can have a REAL man who loves and respects her..
2007-01-19 15:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You grow the H e L L up and quit making excuses for your self or you let her go.If you REALLY LOVED HER you'd stop.Nobody's holdin a gun to your head,you do it because you can.If you want a relationship that is real and solid then you need to use the brain the good lord gifted you with otherwise ,you don't deserve her.
2007-01-19 15:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by hippiegirl672003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a serious problem....Maybe you should seek a professional marriage counselor or an individual counselor. Because when you love someone....you shouldn't want to cheat...so there is something wrong, FIX it.
2007-01-19 15:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly... i helped mom a lil more effective with breakfast today ! then... we had dinner out on the eve of mom's day ( the day surpassed by ) !! convinced i understand it shud were today :) nthing else as such.. only a warmth amazing vacation with maa :)
2016-10-15 11:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling. I say that in the nicest way possible.
2007-01-19 15:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by angelsong_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your wife get you fixed. Works for dogs and sexually active cat, it will work for you.
2007-01-19 15:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by vladimirvase 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont love her if you cheat on her
2007-01-19 15:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋