One of my closest friends, just recently told me he loves me, and when i asked him he said more than a friend. I really like him too. But im scared that if something happens, and it doesn't work out, it will reck our friendship. I really like him and im just scared. Should i go out with him??? please help : )
2007-01-19 15:32:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out with him!
2007-01-19 15:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by dannydolphin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is it that if two really good friends decide that they want to take in another step they get scared because they might loose their friend, go for it!!!! it may be the best thing you have ever done and if it does not work out then why should you not be friends anymore??? what does not kill you should make you stronger right? GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and I hope that your friend is the right one for you.
2007-01-19 23:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by twinki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him. Things have already changed after the moment he told you that he loves you. It could really work out. You were already friends before. That is half the battle of relationships right there.
You'll be fine.
2007-01-19 23:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by BrewMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, go for it. Just know that if things don't work out, then likely your friendship is over. While it's not impossible to remain friends, trust me, it'll be HARD.
If he's worth it, go for it, and hope for the best!
2007-01-19 23:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think it would ruin your friendship? you don't have to change....having a boyfriend is basically just like having a best friend anyway. :) it's okay to be scared, but don't let that stop you from enjoying your friendship :)
2007-01-19 23:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow your heart...
Since you are his closest friends, you should know him well (His temper, personality, behavior, etc). If you think he worth it, then go for it. Otherwise, keep the friendship only.
Just a friendly reminder: If it is all about sex, don't go for it. I hope it is because of good love feeling...
Good luck to you!
2007-01-19 23:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by BB2791 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey if you both like each other then I say go for it! Don't be scared to take a chance. Best of luck
2007-01-19 23:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it will reck your friendship then tell him you just wont to be friends!!!
2007-01-19 23:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really just depends on how the relationship ends if it ends in a good note youll probly stay friends forever its a mix for me so ppl i have went out with i cant stand anymore and other i see almost everyday
2007-01-19 23:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by Athena505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, all girls i know who were in that situation and said to the guy that she doesnt want to ruin their friendship all regrets it in the end... trust me you dont want to hear the stories... JUST GO FOR IT AND TAKE THE CHANCE!!!!
2007-01-19 23:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mark F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do like him go for it...
Trust me the best realtionships are built on friendship
2007-01-19 23:35:46 · answer #11 · answered by booboogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋