Ok, im 15 and i REALLY like this girl, but she doesnt like me, what do girls look for in a guy?
2007-01-19 15:32:42 · 19 answers · asked by Food For Thought 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not you, It may be the girl. Never adjust yourself to please others, because it would take you a lifetime to accomplish that. Move on SCREW the girl.
KEEP HOPE ALIVE!
2007-01-19 15:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by pixiedust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl, if she is shallow and self centered, she may want to talk about herself, if she is a good person and shy she may be hard to get to know. If you really like her try and listen occasionally to things her friends talk about and from that you can glean what kind of person she is. Then read up or learn a little about what she is interested in and start a conversation about those things, she may find you interesting to get to know if you don't approach her as an arrogant macho, bragging guy.
2007-01-19 15:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for a wonderful personality, similar interests, and a person who isn't afraid to tell the truth (i.e., if I'm being annoying, say so). He HAS to be comfortable with himself and mature.
This is just weird, but sometimes the guys who I tend to be able to argue with the best are the guys who I end up having a good relationship with because we never keep secrets.
2007-01-19 15:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by roxya153 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl is different obviously, but every girl I know looks for a sense of humor, compassion, sensitivity, smart *but not too smart*, definately doesn't come off as a player, and not afraid to show his feelings. Be yourself, if she doesn't like you for you then you should find someone that does. Personally, I wouldn't change myself for a girl (or guy in my case). You could miss an opportunity with someone that likes you for you.
2007-01-19 15:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on the girl. If you're funny or hot than that is good. Also, if you are nice in a BA way then she will fall head over heals for you, but this is difficult to do. Good luck. Oh, btw, if you can't get her, get over her. This also makes you look attractive for some reason. I can't figure out why, though. It just makes them look super-beau!
2007-01-19 15:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by bballgirl90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age, girls don't know what they want and they use poor judgment. The best you can do is just be a gentleman. Don't annoy her and be friendly. Don't hang around her too much. Carry some chewing gum in your pocket and offer her some every day.
2007-01-19 15:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence--but not ********* there is a big difference. It is also necessary that a guy have interests such as music, art, or sports--that is a good thing to have as women don't want a guy to obsess about her all the time.
2007-01-19 15:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by memphismar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends wat kind of chic u r. i personally look 4 a good personality but they have2 hav good looks 2! every girl is different but its good 2 just b urself cos even if this chic doesnt like u 4 who u r there will always b othrs who will totally adore u. concentrate on ur personality mainly tho cos a di**khead is not attractive to a girl b nice and friendly and on't b 2 shy. good luck p.s. if 15 2
2007-01-19 15:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ lexi ♥™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind, respectful, confident in yourself, sense of humor, honest.
But after all is said and done attraction is in the eyes of the beholder.....you never know who you'll click with and who you won't.
2007-01-19 15:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by tharnpfeffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl i like someone who is there for me and understanding but tough and smart and no all f*cked into to drugs
2007-01-19 15:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋