parentsss...?

Question

well this is how my life goes.
ive lived in this one place for a longg time and
stayed with my friends for about 10 years. my parents
all of a sudden move to another state olny a hlaf and hour
away but. mu grandparents live where i want to be and
they are will ing for me to stay with them. im going into high school
and i want to be with my friends and get a good education
but they want to bring me where they are and make me go to some crappy school. i hate where they are. i want to live where my grandparents are. its not that fair to me i want to make
my own decisons.

Answer 1

I'm not sure how old you are or why you have not lived with your parents for so long...
Do your parents want to make a new start with your relationship? This could be a good thing... and worth living in a crappy place. Even crappy schools can be places to learn if you apply yourself. (Abraham Lincoln had crappy education, and he was one of our best loved, wise presidents) If your parents are not abusive, if they love you and want to live together as a family for a while, why not give it a shot? It could be worth the effort.

If you give it an honest try, and you and your parents find out that you are not making friends or learning what you should at school, you can always move in with the grandparents.

Answer 2

hi there mmm it seems as if your under age not yet 18 or 21 by law u have to go with your father & mother unless they give custody to your grandparents in order for u to live with them only cause you would be living with them in case anything happends to u . talk to your parents and grand parents all together so that they know how u feel but u must respect your grandparents rules at all times unless u are being abuse that is a diferent story u then call 911.but I'm sure u have a lovely family take care chow

Answer 3

Hey guy. I can understand how you may feel. You don't sound old enough to be 18 yet so unfortunately you can't just do want ever you want to do. Ya gotta listen to your parents. Either that or just try to sit down with your folks and reason with them! You'll be surprised with the outcome.. Another thing is that maybe your parents are looking at your Grandparents as people who are not able to take care of you....A teen, staying up late helping you with your homework, maybe they're getting older affects their way of "parenting" you. Talk about this with your parents and see what happens. Good luck my friend :)

Answer 4

Get your grandparents to talk to them.Either way u r still a child and will have to respect and live by the rules of either your parents or grandparents.