Okay, my friend Kevin and I were sitting in the back seat of the car while my other friend was driving. What happened is he started sliding his hand from my knee toward my crotch. I moved his hand but he didn't stop. He moved closer to me and held my hand and brushed up against my breast. I got really angry and pushed him away. I swear his hand was so close to my vagina.It was almost right on... I got so angry, I have not talk to him since. What was up with this behavior? I have not done anything to excite the situation nor start this behavior.
2007-01-19 15:24:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he was going for you, he obviously is feeling lust for you. The fact that you turned him down should have been a sign, but he continued. He obviously is acting purely out of lust, and was not considering your feelings in the matter. I think you did the right thing by ignoring him completely.it's not right for him to force himself upon you, I think that is completely disrespectful.e better off not being friends with this individual. If he would attempt this in front of a friend, imagine if you were alone with him.
2007-01-19 15:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
well first off he is a man, but i dont like to categorize him like that so ill try to give him the benefit of the doubt, but he doesnt' deserve it. i dont also want to ask how old he is, cause that shouldnt matter, but how old is he? (email me) Ok so he is just a friend, a person you prob have respected (vice versa up unti now) and someone you obviously trusted as a good friend... well no one knows what goes through someone else's head. You need though to ask him what the hell he was thinking, first. I mean it can be many reasons, he was just trying to be a jerk, maybe had a bet with his friends, maybe started to have feelings for you but is afraid of rejection so just thought he would try it his way, i mean it can be tons of things. It is definatly disrespectul no matter how old you are. Talk to him first. good luck
2007-01-19 23:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there were only three people in the car and one was driving while two were in the back seat ...... yes you did put yourself in a vulnerabable position. What he did was wrong but I can see why he would have taken your decision to sit with him in the backseat as a sign that you wanted to "fool around"
2007-01-19 23:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a horndog... any drugs or alcohol involved?? Definately sounds like he was trying to take your relationship to a whole new level. I'd talk to him about it. Tell him outright that you're not interested in that. If he's a real friend he'll back off, if not get rid of his @$$.
2007-01-19 23:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by hockeygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, I think your friend was having a moment (it happens to all us guys) however he couldn't keep his fantasy in his MIND and applied it to the real world. It is also true that maybe he thinks you are more than a friend. Also please don't get offended by this but that is how pervs start so be careful.
2007-01-19 23:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Roger J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im thinkin that he has always liked you but didnt know how to express that to you so he acted on the way he thought you would like it.
but instead of u reacting like he wanted you to now he's somewhere looking stupid thinking about his actions
but you should talk to him and talk about how the both of you feel so that u could find out the truth
but don't throw away your relationship so fast!
~~GL~~
2007-01-19 23:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Messiah Miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys want to fondle / have sex with girls..
Juvenile guys are often very inexperienced and
don't know how to go about doing this...
You are a female and that is excitement enough...
2007-01-19 23:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wants to hit it. And in my opinion you don't have to do anything to bring it on. Guys are pigs and if they think they have a chance then they will try. Sorry that's just how it is.
2007-01-19 23:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by angelbabydoll82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That answer is easy. Here's the equation Man=Always Horny+ Always Stupid
2007-01-19 23:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by LA Law 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I could think of is he got horny, or maybe he was on something. But just be careful.
2007-01-19 23:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by amy_da_cheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋