just up'd and left!?

Question

She left before xmas, i was supposed to fly up to meet her. She called to say hi before going to sleep. After 24 hours with her family, she called called to say not to meet her because she needed to think about us. I haven't heard from her since, ven on my birthday, left her clothes and everything behind. She won't call me or write and actually called the police because of "obsessive emails" All I wanted to know is, why did she go? Why do people up and leave? What do I do, nothing was wrong...so I thought. I finally stopped emailing her yesterday, maybe she'll come to her senses. Womens perspective, what's the deal?

Answer 1

Hello Michael T,

It sounds like she's a spoiled, inconsiderate, *****. You sort of lost it there man, thinking that you could just talk to her and get an answer from her, but she doesn't want to even talk to you. You need to forget her now, and not give her a second thought. If you got her clothes in your place box them up and leave them in front of her apartment, or give them to Good Will Industries, etc.

Consider yourself lucky that she's gone and that you didn't invest anymore of your time and energy into her. Now get on with your life.

Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:

http://www.blowmeuptom.com

I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.

--Rick

Answer 2

I would agree with the saying "it's not you...it's me." something was wrong with her