I told my guy friend that I watched Brokeback Mountain...and I thought that they captured the first sexual encounter with such intensity...the kind you rarely see in films these days, you usually see t&a... He calls me like 3 hours later and asks me "Where you sexually aroused by that scene?" I said "No, I just thought it was beautifully filmed."
Do you think he wants me to be aroused by it??? Or what?
2007-01-19 15:22:36 · 24 answers · asked by running2adream 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just probably would get aroused by thinking about YOUR getting aroused. I wouldn't read much more into it.
Guys like to visualize us being aroused because it makes THEM aroused.
2007-01-19 15:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of funny question but I can give it a shot. A lot of guys are aroused by the thought of two girls together, or by pictures or movies. I am not a girl but I have heard over and over again that ladies are more turned on by touch not so much by images. I do not know if that is true becuase like I said I am a guy. But it would make since for him as a guy to ask you that question because of that difference.
2007-01-19 23:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sergeant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a bit stupid question. But I would say, as a stragiht guy, don't need to worry about it. It's just a gay men-men thing. It's like the old Roman love. In the old times, the Roman had male-male love. It's bit weird to think of in a straight-minded way, but I think that's the logic behind the movie.
Main point: Don't take the movie too seriously. Period.
2007-01-19 23:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Hadrian 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its depending of what kind of guy you have. I mean maybe he likes you and if you find 2 guys having sex is hot, he might find that has a turn off. but if hes one of those bi guys, he might want you to feel the same way he does. I wouldn't assume the second one if i was you, the first is the most probable. Talk to him, and if you like him, slowly start a relationship with him. Hope i helped
2007-01-19 23:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys!
Check this out: ages ago I was driving in the countryside with a male friend. We stop to view some horses, one of which began to pee (a male). Well, I (poor dumb citygirl!) says, "wow, lookit that!", for the horses' schlong was heckalong!
And my friend says (in quite a serious tone), "does that turn you on?"
I was very confused as to how I could laugh and puke at the same time...
So, I interpret these types of responses to mean that guys haven't learned as much about us (whether from experience. listening, or reading) as we have about them. Am I right?
2007-01-19 23:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like he was aroused by it,and wanted to know if you felt the same way.
2007-01-19 23:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was probably curious to see if you get aroused as he does when he sees two girls go at it.
2007-01-19 23:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Would it matter if you were or weren't? Just don't worry about it... or turn it around and ask if he was arroused by that scene or the idea of the passion between the guys
2007-01-19 23:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by beach_chica02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might have been wondering that as to get an idea on what would get you aroused.
2007-01-19 23:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to understand you better. Perhaps he's wondering if you're turned on by watching gay sex.
And it's "interpret" not "interrupt".
I was so mad when Bob interrupted me with his stupid comment while I was explaining how to interpret the poem.
2007-01-19 23:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by therenovator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋