i mean could it be because he is not getting the attention he wants and needs?? and if he cheats on this person because he was misible, now if he is with someone who makes him very happy, does that mean he wont cheat???
2007-01-19 15:21:26 · 20 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The brains are stuck in the pants instead of the skull....
2007-01-19 15:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an easy answer is once a cheater always a cheater....but if they cheated because she was nasty mean or someone other communication breakdown etc maybe he could be true to the right person. If he is of the mind that the more p***y he gets the more of a "man" he is, then he's gonna cheat whenever. Besides it's not true. A real man can stay true to the woman who makes him happy everywhere plus sexually.
2007-01-19 23:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Step into the Freezer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has a lot to do with sex, either he is not getting any or not enough, he proberly likes a wilder side of life and needs a different woman to sleep with, or needs to explore that side of him, nothing could be wrong with the woman but its just all him, they get a little pressured at home and decides to get sex from the first girl that hits on him in a bar.
Men will be men they wont change for anyone, If the King could cheat on the Queen then I guess all men can do the same.
2007-01-19 23:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't usually cheat because they're NOT getting attention, it's usually the other way around. The girl could be too clingy and getting on his nerves. It could be that the girl he's currently with isn't what he thought it would be. Some girls are all make up and fake boobs but have no personality. The guy loses interest in that real fast.
2007-01-19 23:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i think it depends on the guy...I mean, i KIND of think that good guys do stupid things sometimes. Everyone does..i think everyone gets confused..HOWEVER; i think that once it gets to that point where you have heavy feelings for someone else, its best to end the current relationship. Doing whats right can be so hard..thats where people get caught up, theyre afraid of ending things. Its better than cheating though. Like the difference between a felony and a misdemeanor.
2007-01-19 23:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the beginning of man. Cave men would roam in groups or tribes and would just randomly have sex with the closest woman. It's natural instinct. I don't think that men were ever meant to be monogamous. When man started out, his only purpose was to spread his seed, start the population. That's still innate in man's subconcious today. In our society today though, some men fight that urge just because of the stigmatism we have put on cheating.
2007-01-20 13:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different reasons guys cheat...Some are for the reasons you mentioned and then there is also just because they can and because they want to and because so many women will still take them back after they do so...You can't stop your man from cheating if that's what he is going to do.
2007-01-19 23:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yah if he was with someone that makes him very happy he wouldnt.... but for the most part guys who cheat cheat because they can and in a sense they are pissed off at girls in general because they follow a pattern so much and its annoying for the guy cuz they cant find a girl smarter to get out of the typical patterns (all girls are really messed up to most guys, and cheating guys know that),.... its kinda hard to explain, hope you get what i mean.
2007-01-19 23:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mark F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men don't cheat (for the most part) if they are happy at home. And I think that sex is very important to a man of almost any age, so at least twice a week should give him what he desires. But equally, if the woman is also interested in sex and otherwise makes their man feel loved and appreciated, that helps immensely.
2007-01-19 23:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for some "strange." I have seen even the happiest guy cheat when presented with the opportunity of something different.
2007-01-19 23:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Rita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋