She went out with her friend one night, which was fine. I told her before she headed out that all I want 2night is for you to come home to me. She agrees. She doesn't and we ended up fighting over the phone. Our relationship has been rocky for the past year. The longest we've been apart was 3 months. Anyhow, she calls me 2 days later saying we don't match and we're headed in different directions. I beg and pleaded(I regret doing)for her to stay but it didn't work. It's been 3 weeks since we broke up and I'm still hoping that one day she'll call me up. What should I do now? I'm so lonely and depressed. I miss her so much. HOW CAN I GET HER BACK? Please help.
2007-01-19 15:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by toji408 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on and rub it in her face. She'll get jealous and come back begging you.
2007-01-19 15:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thoroughly comprehend your place, yet i think of i'm getting the place she's coming from, too. She's asking you to coach the believe which you have have been given been progressively dropping during the gap and the miscommunication and take a bounce of religion to be along with her. you assert why no longer wait 3 months - yet once you have been nevertheless trapped interior the cycle, does no longer you nevertheless be thinking no count if it replaced into properly well worth the possibility, or could you implicitly be per being interior the comparable place on the comparable time making each and every thing greater effective, too? In her eyes, the two you're prepared to make the sacrifice and combat for the courting via her area or you're no longer - and while you're no longer, then i think of you're only going to could walk away.
2016-12-16 08:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by shoaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your coming off looking really needy...which isn't could cause needy rhymes with clingy. You shouldn't get on all fours for someone who obviously doesn't feel the same way about you...my advice, spend time with friends and forget about her, once you've done that find someone you can really connect with and you will be truly happy. The problem if you get back with her...is that you'll be rocky and you shouldn't be with someone who is going to make things run from hot to cold, it is not healthy.
2007-01-19 15:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by artgirl11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like your a self centered person .. you only thought about your feelings not her .... your trying to control someone who has a free will and let me tell you, life does not work that way.. all you can do is apologize and hope she loves you enough to come back to you but, you may have already ruined this relationship ... its all your fault you made some mistakes deal with it and learn from your mistakes so in the future this wont happen good luck
2007-01-19 15:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Erick H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen man, open your eyes, she is just trying to avoid what she really wants to say. she isnt worth the heart break. there is a huge chance its her and she feels she isnt in love anymore, she probably met someone else. I am not saying this to anger you, but how would you really know? can you honestly still say you trust her? let me tell ya something, if you want her back that is your business, tell her how you feel in person, cry if you have too (and mean it) just let it out, if in the end she has no feelings or sympathy, you know she is or has cheated on you or is interested in someone else. love doesnt just fade, the person lets it. she let it fade, she was looking for something else that came along.
good luck
2007-01-19 15:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should figure out why you love her and think it is best to stay together. Then tell her, I think we should be together, because...(and fill in the blank). I'm sorry to hear your situation, I'm in a similar situation right now. Good luck
2007-01-19 15:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....u can't force anyone to do anything...she wants u to leave her alone...or u will be called psycho or worst...just leave her alone and try to keep your manhood by not whining or anything....a helpless guy is a turn off..be like a stud and just find another girl...don't let her take away ur happiness.
2007-01-19 15:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation.. my boyfriend broke up wit me over a month ago coz he needed time for himself... n i want him bac but i dnt think there is anything we can say or do to make them change their mind... i guess we jus have to wait until they realise they need us & come back..
2007-01-19 15:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋