CHOOSE BETWEEN YOU AND HIS CHILDREN???my best friend made her boyfriend choose thats why i was asking..
2007-01-19 15:17:55 · 10 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That is one marriage that is doomed from the start...but if she feels that way she should find someone else..and if I was the boyfriend I'd help her out the door.
That is a package deal...he will have to deal with these children for the rest of his life one way or the other. Sorry she is your friend.
She is setting herself up for heartache and misery.
2007-01-19 15:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Not his children nor his parents. That's just disrespectfull of God gifts. If she can't accept or compromise about these side of things in her partner's life then she should back out of the relationship.
Find a nice way of telling her this...
Oh, and tell her that if he end up choosing her, most likely he's not a good, stable & sensible person anyway and just using her for sex.
2007-01-20 00:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Xonja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly would never make my fiance choose between her and my kids. But if she ever made me choose, It would be my kids. See ya later fiance. Who in the world would ever want to be married to an individual like that?
2007-01-19 23:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by dawnsdad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER that is AWFUL!!!! I'm getting married in August and I have 1 child from before i met my fiance. If he ever asked me to do that there would be no question he would have to take a hike. My child will always come first NO MATTER WHAT!
2007-01-19 23:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by lexmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER.... and if the guy did have to choose, he better choose his children.
2007-01-20 01:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god no, children should be way important and so should I, but thats just something you compromise on, no me or them! lord if my fiance had kids I know he would drop me in a minute for his kids! and I wouldn't blame him! pretty crappy of her...
2007-01-19 23:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but I definitely wouldn't marry anyone who had or wanted children.
2007-01-20 05:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! How can that even be an option! I think that is awful.
2007-01-19 23:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by NoTurningBackNow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not right.
2007-01-19 23:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! its just asking for them to split up! x
2007-01-20 04:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋