ok im a sophmore and i am soo in love with my chemistry teacher.. we always make eye contact and we always talk he always wants me to stay after school and hes always smiling at me! i have dreams about him when ever im at school i always see him everywhere! i dont know if its just a crush or what but i like him and i dont know what to do! whenever were in class me and him are always near eachother! i NEED HELP!!
2007-01-19 14:51:14 · 23 answers · asked by secretlover1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a BAD idea. Try meeting boys your own age. Pursuing this will only cause trouble.
2007-01-19 14:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its an infatuation. On your part. If he does anything inappropriate, he is not much of a teacher. You are spending way too much time with this teacher after class. You want help? Your dreams are a result of hormones. This teacher may be giving you attention that makes you feel special without intending to. You need to occupy yourself with something else or someone else. If you have any respect for this teacher at all and respect for yourself. Chalk it off as a little crush on your part. Move on. Don't spend any more time with this teacher then you need to. When he wants you to stay after school, tell him SORRY YOU CAN'T AND MAKE UP ANY REASON WHY YOU CAN'T. You will be doing yourself a favor in the long run.
2007-01-19 15:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went through the same thing when I was 15 I was in looove with my English teacher. He was soooo hot ....he had ice blue eyes....I loved when he wrote on the chalkboard so I could see another great feature ;) It was alot of fun! It was harmless. We never hooked up but it was the excitement and pretty much knowing I couldn't have him since he was older than me and my teacher. I actually wrote anonymous love notes to him and set them on his desk before he got there. I was so excited to see him everyday. I remember LOVING getting extra attention and staying after school w/ my teacher. It was such a turn on. I had dreams all the time. It does pass though. I went onto the next grade and all those feelings faded....It's just lust or "crush" ....it's fun and harmless as long as you don't attempt to go too far. All I can say is it made the whole year fly by! Good luck!
2007-01-19 14:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea how many girls in your school have a crush on the same teacher? Tons. Young male teachers (or even middle-aged-ished ones) can look appealing when they smile and are nice to you and are grown-up acting rather than baseball-hat-wearing highschool boys. A whole bunch of girls will have crushes on teachers, although many girls are a little more grown-up and don't.
If he's decent he will have no interest in you whatsoever because you are young and among any number of girls who have a crush on him. If he's a sleeze he could possibly take advantage of girls who like him, but you don't want to be used by a sleeze I'd think; and you wouldn't want a big, public, scandal in school and him to lose his job either, I'd think.
Assume he's an intelligent, normal, grown-up, guy who would not have interest in young students; and find someone else to be interested in. What you do about it? Nothing. Get your mind off him. It isn't going anywhere, and do you want to feel silly?
2007-01-19 15:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a dangerous situation! You need to avoid any contact other than required school work. No staying after etc... He is an adult and you are a child. If there is some remote chance of the two of you getting together wait until after you graduate. He can be fired for this and put in jail it is not worth it trust me!
2007-01-19 15:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a crush. Do not pursue it. You have plenty of time to date boys your own age. I know he may be cute and I know he may seem to flirt with you--eye contact BUT you really don't need to be with or around him other than for school activity. If he takes it a step further then strictly school you need to tell your principle. If you take it a step further then strictly school you are risking this man's career and inevitably his life as he knows it. It's child molestation to further this so I'd just say look at the BOYS in your class not the men. Best of Luck!
2007-01-19 15:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a crush, just don't follow up on it.
If the guy is an asshole he will take advantage of you.
If he isn't, and you tell him it's going to be very wierd around him and the whole school will probably find out.
So best thing to do is just to keep it as it is and i'm sure you'll end up crushing on someone who is more at your age lvl soon enough.
2007-01-19 14:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all been there...its jut a crush and it'll fade soon. and he's proably too old for you anyways so u can forget it....maybe when ur 26 and u still know him, you can start dating but other than that...no. Have u asked him if he's single or has a wife?
2007-01-19 15:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by hip_hop_me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its a simple high school teacher crush!
2007-01-19 14:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Janine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats bad i had a crush on my 9th grade social studies teacher but it passed as soon as i heard about that lady who went to jail for messing with her student
2007-01-22 17:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by hot_kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋