-sigh- I loved her so much.. .And she just broke up with me... Saying that she loved me. But the little things I did drove her insane...
And I'm pretty sure she left me for another woman... -sigh- What do I do? I'm so ready to just end my life...
2007-01-19 14:05:01 · 4 answers · asked by Moocat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm seriously thinking about ending my life... I'm stressing over this so much.. I'm crying so much... I stressed out my body so much that I gave myself hives...
I really can't live without her. You don't know how much I love her...
2007-01-19 15:39:32 · update #1
Heartbreaks suck. There is NO BODY worth ending your life for. Trust me.
In any relationship, no one is perfect and there will always be those "little things" that we have to learn to live with. To me she seemed to use that as an excuse to break up with you. You don't really want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore.
My boyfriend says I am unorganized, but he finds it comical. He looks at it differently.
Don't let her get you down. It is ok to grieve over the loss of your relationship with her, but it is not ok to lose your life over her.
There is someone else out there for you. Go ahead and grieve for a few days, then pick yourself back up and go out there.
The best thing to do when your heart is broken, is to go and volunteer for someone. To help others when you are down is the best thing to do. It lifts their spirits and yours while you are helping them. You can volunteer at a local hospital or nursing home. You could do something small as to open a door for someone who is just has their hands full, smile at someone else who looks like they just had a horrible day. To see the smile on their face will brighten yours too.
Never end your life because someone broke your heart. You have more to live for that you do not know about. To end your life, you would never know what was just around the corner. Hugs to you. You will be fine. I promise. Hang in there.
2007-01-19 14:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that you love yourself too. If you kill yourself you will definitly never see her nor anyone else again. Give yourself a chance to be happy again. SO take sometime to find yourself and fall in love with THAT girl(meaning you) Don't be afraid to take some time and be all about yourself for a while. She may enter your mind, but this is only natural...just remember how many other sad things you have gotten over in your life. There will be a day where you are completely over her, and she will be a just fond memory, and you wilunderstand that she was not right for you....and not that you were not right for her.
Your true love will love all or almost all of your little quirks, and will be willing to put up with the ones she doesn't like just to be with you.
I know break-ups are extremely hard, but this too will get easier and there will be a silvery lining around this dark cloud too. Be strong, and learn to love yourself first. Once you can truly love yourself,the right girlfriend will be right around the corner somewhere, and finding her will be the next adventure for you.
2007-01-19 14:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about that. No break up is easy for someone. Out of sight, out of mind. Occupy yourself. Anything that reminds you of her, dispose of or put away. Just keep yourself busy and talk to someone. Sometimes letting it out helps. Time heals all wounds.
2007-01-19 14:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Adriels Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a shame but hell i hope your still alive as i type this, my advice is to move to a place where you can easily find another one and besides theres always rough moments in life and the ones who remain strong always wind up happy
2007-01-19 14:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋