after having a party i found myself, coming face to face with my partner sister ,and she made it quite clear that i could see her as well as her sister, she went on to tell me about what i had done to her sister ,she would like me to do to her, i do not now what to do, in one hand this is a mans dream come true but not when it is really this close, if i tell my partner its going to start a new chain of events off, i have lost trust in my partners, i now she is her sister but did not expect her to talk about what we get up to where sex is concerned ,i am hopping that somebody who this had this happen to will drop me the bad parts to this,or from sister to this has happened to,i do not want to loss on this one so trying to focus on the negative , i have done nothing wrong and at the moment kept my mouth shut, what do you think ? i can not sleep at night tq for the web
2007-01-19 13:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by popsworth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
stay with one if you date both it will be bad for u and for them and later you will end with none
2007-01-19 13:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sisters talk just like brothers talk. A sister did not hope to have a triffling sister that would go behind her back and try to get her man. I think you should put the sister in her place and tell her your are not interested in hurting her sister like that because you care about her. You are right that is too close to home. If you are willing to cheat on her woth someone then break it off but the sister is still off limits forever. You should not lose trust in your partner because she talked to her sister, it is not like she cheated on you. If a female is talking about the sex you have with her then it means that you are great in the sex department but if she remains silent and not tell a soul then you would have something to worry about. I am sure that you have told a close friend or brother something about her that she would not feel comfortable with them knowing. Just put sister in her place and continue your relationship with your partner.
2007-01-19 21:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whaddaya know, a non "I like this girl... but I dunno if she likes me" question on yahoo! answers. there's something I haven't seen in a while. Now you kinda left out some details, are thinking about dating your Partner's sister behind her back? because that would be a very very bad move, considering how sisters know each other incredibly well. If you're talking about some kind of polygamy, I'm not really into that but I know some people who are, and I can tell you one thing I've gleamed from them. In polygamous relationships the girls almost always have to be bi (and like each other to a point) for it to last longer than a few months. if they're not it's going to go to hell in a handbasket incredibly fast. So start out finding out (subtly please) if they're bi.
On the other side of the coin, the way she approached you was a bit abnormal and unless she (and her sister) are just very forward people, she could be a bit psycho (or a backstabber), so I'd take that into contemplation.
Your call man, And thanks for giving me something interesting to answer : P
"Don't be yourself, be your best self"
-Raven
2007-01-19 21:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear I love my Partner.
If you truely love her it is time to shut down the possible relationship with her sister. Tell the sister that it would cause problems in the relationship with her sister that you love. If you are thinking of doing this then you really do not love the sister that much or you are just in lust. And you can give the sister my email..beetem@sbcglobal.net I am a single man.
2007-01-19 21:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by beetem@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont tell your partner. tell her sis that she has no respect for you and your partners relationship and the next time she disrespects you that you will tell her sis what is up. If youve done nothing wrong there is nothing to worry about . the only thing i can say is that you are feeling guilty over it because you have fanticized about it already.
2007-01-19 21:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by troubble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry this happened to u. I think that you should go with the one you love. Another solution is to um have sex with both...three some works..lol i mean see which one gets u feeling it
2007-01-19 21:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by krombakh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Decide which one you want to be with and stick with it. Don't jerk either them around. You need to be honest because it could hurt both of them and the relationship they have with each other.
2007-01-19 21:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by milwaukiedave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her sister if she thinks your wife would be interested in a threesome with your wife and you. If so, get her to initaite it with your wife, not mentioning that you suggested it. Let your wife think it was her sister's idea.
2007-01-19 21:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her sister to **** off. you don't need that such. tell ur girl what happened & also tell her that u r disapointed that she told such intimate events to someone else.
if my sister done that to me i would F@#* her up somethin' bad. no one touches my man... n she of all people should know better.
2007-01-19 21:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋