My cousin told me she was Bi and I started to freak out! She was my favorite cousin......She started asking me If I would want to go out with one of her lesbian friends and I just told her to get a life....I was pissed because all my other cousins were not really close. she was like a friend to me.....
2007-01-19 13:29:57 · 12 answers · asked by Lovely_T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, I don't know why girls become Bi or Lesbians, but she's still your cousin, your family. Does sexual orientation really have to be that important? There's no sense in not being close to her just becomes she likes girls. The way I look at it, love is love, no matter what. I don't care for ppl to like others of the same sex, and I'll have you know I'm straight, but I don't see a problem with having a friend who likes girls. Your cousin is close to you as well, or else she never would have told you. She put her trust in you and wanted to be accepted. If you, her closest friend and cousin, won't accept her, don't you think that would make her feel awful? I'm sorry if I sound rude, but I think you should think things through, and really think. You liked her before you knew she was Bi, but as soon as you find out, you shy away? That just doesn't make sense to me. I'm sure it may have surprised you a bit, but really, there's no real need to lose someone you were really close to because she was Bi.
2007-01-19 13:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mizuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesnt change who she is she is the SAME PERSON OKAY i think u are the one that needs a life there is nothing wrong with being gay or bi or lesbian ok if she asked that to me i would have said : sorry i dont go out with girls" trust me she would understand i mean it She is still your cousin nothing differnet about her she just likes girls so dont think about it and one more thing to think about if u were her and u told her u were bi how would u feel if she said GET A LIFE! its her choice and i am sorry this is long i needed u to know about this so good luck and remeber she is still your cousin she is no different then anybody else!!
2007-01-19 13:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some women become Bi or Les to try something different or they for some reason was turned on by the same sex. Sometimes it is just a phase. If that is how your cousin wants to live her life you have to respect that, but at the same time you much let her know that she has to respect the fact that you are not interested in joining that phase in her life. You can still be friends and do cousin stuff, but let her know you are not interested in getting to know that other life style because you don't roll like that.
2007-01-19 13:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a million) young infants are stupid. This has continuously been real for a while. 2) Lesbians do not hate men. i'm a lesbian - i don't hate men. If something, I question why i don't purely circulate date a guy from time to time because of the fact women human beings are complicated lol 3) there are various immediately human beings and a lots bigger share than LGBTQ. 4) the human beings you meet? Birds of a feather flock mutually. you could desire to stay in a Jerry Springer variety of city.
2016-10-07 10:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can still be your friend. Why does this change anything? As long as she respects that you're not into it, (obviously), it can't possibly matter. Just make it clear that you're not interested and let it go. And after all, it may just be an experimental phase that many people go through. This is so not a big deal, but if she keeps pushing it, tell her to piss off.
2007-01-19 13:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Arwen G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t believe that people "turn" bi or lesbian or gay. I just think they`re born that way. You don`t have to agree with me, that`s just my opinion. Although, I don`t really think people can be bisexual, but that`s a different topic.
If you two were really as close as you say you were, she probably told you because she trusted you and thought you would accept her. Also, if you two were as close as you say, you should`ve accepted her. Yes, her asking you to go on a date with one of her lesbian friends was a little too far, but you could`ve just explained that you were completely straight and uninterested and I`m sure she would`ve dropped it.
I just think that family members should be there more for the homosexual people in their family. It`s hard enough being gay, it makes it even worse when your family hates you for it.
2007-01-19 13:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most are just tired of our{mens} crap. They think that other women can give them the emotional stuff they didn't get from their boyfriends/husbands. A small percentage of lesbians really are attracted to women only, but definitely not all.
2007-01-19 13:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Fab 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bi is just a courious state and a lot of girls go through it... nothing to worry about.. dont put your cousin down because she is bi.. and be a little more open minded...
2007-01-19 13:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh man that sucks...ha ha not all girls turn bi or lesbians i havent
2007-01-19 13:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
some say its nature and some say its nurture i guess there is arguments for both sides, but the whole bisexual thing has really seemed to have risen in the last little while............
2007-01-19 13:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by D R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋