Me and my girlfriend are both 13 and we have been going out for about 6 months. The other day we went to the movies and we started making out. We were alone in the theater and I dont no what happened but I slid my hand down under her and slid my fingers into her. She didn't stop me and she didn't seem to care but I am still worried about what would happen in the future if we were to break up. What are the possible repercussions of this?
2007-01-19 13:29:26 · 35 answers · asked by james 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay in school and grow up please!!!
2007-01-19 13:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What's done is done if I was you I would leave it alone she didn't care when you was doing it then more than likely she don't care now but if you worried that she's going to break up with you then talk to her explain to your girlfriend that you didn't know what happened things got out of hand and tell her that your sorry for disrespecting her and putting your hands where they don't belong but before you go all the way with your girlfriend talk to your parents because your only 13 you don't want to ruined your life your to young to be a father.
2007-01-19 14:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Miss C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The possible reprecussions are that you may be persuaded to go much further the next time.
Sex is not something to play with.....it is a serious matter.
The fact that you both respected each other so little to do this in such a public place is on a disgusting level of its own.
You are both extremely young and need to realize that regardless of how far you go together - it is now assumed that anything can go due to your disregard this time around.
Rethink what happened - talk about it........be more responsible in this and any other relationship in the future!
2007-01-19 13:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is going to happen. The only consequences have to do with how you feel about each other and yourselves.
I would say that you are both too young to be exploring each other physically if you are having feelings that lead to guilt, shame and questions like this one.
I would stick to kissing in the future and keep even the kissing pretty light.
Look, talk to your girl about what happened. Explain that you feel it shouldn't have (which I assume is what you are saying), that you would like to slow down. Do promise not to tell your buddies or anyone else and ask her to do the same. Sex should remain between the parties involved and no one else.
Reassure her that you do not think ill of her and ask her not to disrespect you. Promise each other to wait - you're not ready.
2007-01-19 13:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you are 13 and have no buisness doing anything of the sort. I realize as a young man you are courious, but has it ever occured to you that what you are doing is wrong. The showing of affection is one thing, but that is a sin and you will be judged. The guilt you are feeling isn't really worring about you breaking up it's your subconscious stepping in God's little way of telling you what you did was not acceptable and it will keep bothering your conscious untill you ask for his forgiveness.
2007-01-19 13:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by troubble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What repercussions could there be? Do you mean that one of you might talk about it to others? If you both respect each other then that won't happen. You're right that you shouldn't have done it, but that doesn't mean you have to do it again. Just slow down and enjoy being kids. If you feel tempted to do smething then talk to your parents or an older sibling.
2007-01-19 13:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to be doing that. Slow down. What are you thinking. The next you are making out with her think about a crying baby, that will quick ruin the moment. You are too young for this stuff.
2007-01-19 13:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
repercussions? arnt you a little young to be saying let alone knowing that word? second i am 19 and i have had a fiance and we have had lots and lots of the s** and trust me dude we did it every day for around a year and she broke it off with me after joining the military. so yeah she didnt really care stuff happens and if she gets really offened cause you break it off and she yells at you for it ask her why she let you do it in the first place...get in any deeper stuff you can yell at me @ metalup87@yahoo.com....good luck bro!
2007-01-19 13:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a bruh i feel u and i see u young. but just chill it happens all the time. just dont move to fast. u have to save some 4 tha future. i was n ur position a couple years ago so i can feel u. dont think about break ups yet. just let time pass by. But remember DONT MOVE TO FAST!!!!
2007-01-19 13:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by trap_boyz336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13....and to tell you the truth you should wait to do things like that,we still r too young at age 13 maybe wait until 18 or 16 because if 2 kids or teens have sexual relationships 16 below you 2 can go to jail,NOT KIDDING
2007-01-19 13:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ur 13 and still young, give me a brake ur a kid. what if it happen again and she didn't stop u she she get pregnant. will you be able to take care of her and get kid when her parents kick her out. dating it nice when ur 18 and have a job.
i am 20 and my bf is 23 and we are just hanging out we have been going out for 2 years and he never did that to me or ask for sex we are waiting till we get marry and you should too girls respect you more i respect my bf because he's not about sex. he care about me and is willing to wait
2007-01-19 13:36:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋