I really like this girl, but she thinks of us like bro+sis and we are extremly close friends and ive asked her out twice and instead of giving me an answer she dates on of my friends. what do i do?
2007-01-19 13:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, I used to have problems like this, and I can understand where you're coming from. Like the guy above said, "keep fishing", but I'm going to tell you how you can do it better. If you're interested in a girl, you can't be like "Do you want to go out on a d-d-d-date with me?" Sorry man but unfortunately for guys, the direct approach doesn't work. it needs to be casual, indirect. Example: You get to know someone well, and you both kinda hit it off, and sometime "Hey, _______ I really enjoyed talking to you about ______ , you seem to know alot about it. I'd like to get your opinion on how ______ affects ______, We should go grab some coffee discuss it further." Of course this is only gonna work if you actually made a connection with her on some level, but a little effort can go a long way
"Don't be yourself, be your BEST self"
-Raven
2007-01-19 13:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by The Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl to like. I know that sounds kind of bad and insensitive, but she isn`t interested. And I`m sure there are lots of other nice girls in your school or around wherever you live. Try to find someone else, because obviously you aren`t getting anywhere with her.
2007-01-19 21:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It's not worth the pain. There's a possiblity she's trying to make you jealous, but that may not be the case.
2007-01-19 21:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by isolatedeternity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her....once the chick says bro+sis...its a no go..there's plenty more trim in the gym...keep looking.
2007-01-19 21:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and find some other person like always say "there are alot of fish in the sea to choose from"
2007-01-19 21:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by alex t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like her, then dont stop to think twice. Im sure it will work out. Just go in for a kiss one day and see wat happens...i cant tell u wats gunna happen, but i cant give you some advice; go get her.
2007-01-19 21:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up bro and keep on fishing...
2007-01-19 21:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by mathlete1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
move on. If she doesn't like you the way you want her to, there is not much you can do.
2007-01-19 21:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget her and find someone else, do your thing or what ever it is that you do. she is not worth the time you will find someone who will treat you better.
2007-01-19 21:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by D R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ummm... eventually she will run out friends to date...
2007-01-19 21:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Lorraine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋